Building a high energy state in the club w/o drinking!

[Terell Kirby]

Headed out tonight to see how this works. I typically indulge in shots and cocktails to build a bit of liquid courage in approaching .. but just working with raw courage tonight lol.

Wish me luck .. any tips / shared experiences would be great.

Edited December 5, 2021 by Terell Kirby

[SamC]

If you dont figure it out tonight, it's fine. Everything is very state depended and honestly pretty random. You can stand there and be terrified af and then 20 minuts later start talking to a girl and kill it and get in the flow.

Don't beat yourself up, focus on the long term.

[Terell Kirby]

@SamC Thanks for the feedback.

The night actually went way better than expected without alcohol (liquid courage). I was actually more social, and more coherent, attentative and focused during my conversations with groups of women. Eye contact game was even better.

I was even more open to chatting it up with random guys who were also out on prowl .. we became friends to the point where we approach clusters of girls as a team. This was really awesome.

Not to mention (perhaps the best point), I didn't feel like shit the next day lol. I plan on going out sober again really soon.

[SamC]

45 minutes ago, Terell Kirby said:

@SamC Thanks for the feedback.

The night actually went way better than expected without alcohol (liquid courage). I was actually more social, and more coherent, attentative and focused during my conversations with groups of women. Eye contact game was even better.

I was even more open to chatting it up with random guys who were also out on prowl .. we became friends to the point where we approach clusters of girls as a team. This was really awesome.

Not to mention (perhaps the best point), I didn't feel like shit the next day lol. I plan on going out sober again really soon.

Awsome man! ??