Understanding Self - Sabotage > A Thorough Analysis

[Striving for more]

Why we self-sabotage?

"The > we want something - the > we push it away"

Our reality = Reflection of our self image

Shift your Identity > Behaviors

Unless we work on our self - image, even if we start changing behaviors it won't feel natural > we'll find ways to self-sabotage it subconsciously

We get in life what we believe we deserve

Our ego will find ways to validate our beliefs 

 

What are your Values?

Do you value peoples approval & validation more than you value your own authenticity/vulnerability?

 

Saying yes to others = saying no to yourself

saying no others will protect your vision

Vulnerability = the cure to shame > Open you up & takes away the shame 

PERFECTIONISM = ANOTHER FORM OF SELF SABOTAGE 

VALIDATION >> U MUST VALIDATE URSELF > DONT KEEP URSELF SMALL IN ORDER TO EVADE OUT SHINING OTHERS 

 

WORTHYNESS > IF U BELIEVE YOU SHOULD ONLY MAKE $50,000 PER YEAR, YOU WILL BLOCK OUT OPPURTUNITIES TO MAKE $50,000 PER MONTH 

*Read the book psycho cybernetics 

YOUR IDENTITY IS FLEXIBLE

New Identity > Starts with a Vision : 

• Financial freedom & abundance
• Hard working, patient, Hyperfocus + Well balanced life - work hard/play hard ect.. still have time to do all my hobbies, play soccer, enjoy nature, gardens, trees, waterfalls, art & creativity
• Creative, strategic, valuable individual with a unique & precious mind, 
• Legal freedom/power, freedom to live anywhere whenever I want
• Travel Lifestyle 
• Business Mongol, multiple homes, passive income 
• Investing Mongol, Crypto genius, stocks genius, & genius investor all round, able to easily make 10 - 100X gains in a year
• Bilingual - Speaks 4-5 languages & 2-3 languages fluently 
• Social status, Authentic confidence
• Pick up maestro & confident in my sexuality, able to quickly obtain attractive + high quality girlfriends/side chicks
• 100% Energetically liberated > never ever worrying about others opinions, 100% unapologetically authentic & able to express this through my behaviors, my actions

HONESTY : My current identity 

• Low IQ, Low potential, the "delta" or "epsilon" of humans (Brave new world)
• Not Attractive enough and  tall enough to succeed with women 
• Too old/past it already, too old to have fun, to go out, "should've done this 5 years ago"
• Unreliable - "I always waste my money & go back to square 1" 
• Social loner - "the good people always leave or betray me" 
• Low energy/Unmotivated Human > Unable to succeed or even fulfill basic needs because "I don't have the energy, I have brain fog"
• Untalented > bad at life no matter how much I try

Ok I need to stop writing about my "current identity" because I'm already starting to feel negative emotions, I need to re channel myself with New Identity

The "universe rewards u for doing what u love" >> OUCHH

• I haven't got their yet career wise but, ouch I just want the money I dunno. 

Don't feel like the victim, this can be an addictive trap. 

 

Edited October 4, 2021 by Striving for more