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What kind of a man I'm attracted to and why

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This is relevant to the recent thread I opened.

It will help me explore where I'm going wrong while trying to attract a man and why I am always attracting some bullshitter.

 


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All this ATTRACTION theory is making so much sense now.

 


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I need to make some tea and free up my head a little bit

 

Too much cold and brain fog 

 

 


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I think I need to relax.

I'm feeling hyper right now.

I don't know what happened.

My feelings can be pretty strong.

And a non responsive environment can make me feel dead 

Anyway I have my plan under my belt and honestly nothing can be better than that..these are the best times.

 


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I have dated so many guys. I'm kinda tired.


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I have mostly dated hot guys.

But it's time to switch it up.

Time to look for average dudes.

What else can a hot guy offer?

Not much.

Other than what ..,looks and charms.

 

I'm kinda tired of all that.

It doesn't last long.

What I like is a guy who is great in bed and a motivator.

A guy who knows my mind.

A guy who is protective.

A guy who knows how to make the relationship work and is just tough with his values.

I don't know how that's going to be.

I am definitely not dating a Pisces. Joseph was a Pisces. Pisces Pisces disaster. 

Nah...

I need someone

 I have dated Taurus already.

Now.......even Aries ..

 

No..

Maybe I like Cancer. Or a Leo.

I'm scared of Scorpio. Charles Manson vibes. Gah!

 

Then comes December. A saggitarius!

Please lol, not that nightmare. They are cold like dead fish. My mom is one in that category.

Capricorn seem good..but lol boring...they even have a reputation of being super boring.

 

Now don't expect me to sit down next to a Capricorn and discuss the daily newspaper. Or stupid Politics. Men!

You know I'm a Pisces. I need sex before breakfast! 

 

Next is who ?

An Aquarius .....oh God. They are like so so so so so careful. About every thing.. plus so methodical. 

I will have to keep dancing around an Aquarius just to let him know that I'm actually ready for sex!

 

The only person that comes to mind is a Cancer......

Virgo and Libra are not my type. They are too disciplined and focused and calm. They are too balanced for a freak like me.

Plus I'm a freak in the sheets!

 

The only Match is a Scorpio. But my God if a Scorpio ever looked at me angrily with a dead stare(that Scorpio stare that kills people) if there was ever a thing called "killing you with my eyes" then it fits the Scorpio to the T. If a Scorpio ever looked at me angrily with a dead stare, I'll be dead on the floor or I'll run out of the house to the hills and never come back.

Please I'm a sensitive Pisces. Have mercy on my soul !

Spare me angry stares.

The only place where a guy can look angrily at me is when he is about to fuck me. Then it's hot.

 

Or else I'm scared the shuttle Outta me. 

 

 


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So after filtering out majority of the crapola zodiac signs, the only one who can pacify my restless Pisces soul is a Cancer.

Yep.

Only a Cancer can keep me happy.

The next closest choice is a Leo. Smart and grounded, and doesn't want to hurt my lovely sensitive heart.

I have had many Leo friends but not lovers.

Not one Cancer lover.

You really think I'll let a Cancer go.

 

No way.

Once a Cancer comes to me, he is trapped in my net. Ain't not gonna allow him to simply walk away. Will eat him up and swallow him whole.

Right now I have nothing to do but wait for the right guy to pass by and then look back at me and I'll give him one look and he will think about me.

One sip of my ginger tea...

 


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It seems every zodiac sign has some incompatibility or flaw.

So it just doesn't work.

This whole horoscope zodiac astrology thing

 

All 12 signs are deeply flawed in their own ways which distorts every seemingly normal relationship.

It only feels good in the attraction phase

After that it goes cold.

The signs come back to their nastiness

 

 

 


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Sometimes I feel like this whole attraction thing is cheap.

 


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I want to get married at the end of this year or next year

 

I'm eager to find that that that that guy 

 

The one who will  become my ultimate soulmate.

 

 

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Anyway Taurus and Pisces are off the list.

I won't date them again because they're highly incompatible. 

Desirable but incompatible.

So who's next ?

Maybe Cancer and Leo.

 I'm not going to try too hard.

Get it right or forget this whole relationship crap and get back to work.

 


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My compatibility is also high with Aquarius.

So I have the list ready 

  • Aquarius
  • Leo
  • Cancer

I'll say no to Capricorn.

Because after careful consideration I have realized not to take that risk 

Nothing wrong with it though but I just generally think most caps are unlucky for some reason. 

 


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The person born in the August month can drive me crazy. 

They are nice and super sweet to me.

I met a guy  a few years ago. He was that.

Smooth operator. Killer guy.

Was extra extra nice to me.

I used to watch him from far. He would walk straight to me. If I needed something he would do it for me.

He would treat me like a Princess. 

Like I was someone special to him.

Hover around me.

I used to feel nice. But I didn't sleep with him. 

He told me once how he wanted to sleep with me and how we can enjoy a vacation together.

I simply got very furious (my intense Pisces nature) and just cut him out for good.

I just wasn't having direct sex.

I wanted to be serenaded before a guy could take me to his bed.

I swear if he was with me today, we would have had mad sex.

I would have made him go crazy.

 

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