How to not laugh at my own jokes?

[Preety_India]

2 minutes ago, tatsumaru said:

Assuming both alternatives are authentic behavior (not pretending for others) do you find it more attractive if a guy's funny without laughing at his own jokes (keeping a cool face) or if he's being funny and also laughing at his own jokes?

I think both are very attractive to me. 

If a guy doesn't laugh much, then I will make him laugh. 

If he laughs at his own jokes, my work is saved and I'll laugh along with him. 

Usually when a guy laughs a lot, I find it very pleasing. 

But not sarcastic laugh. Sarcastic laughter can make me upset, it's different from normal laughter because it means the person is secretly mocking/insulting by laughing. So not that kind of laugh 

 

Just general normal laughter coming from a guy reduces my anxiety and makes me happy 

 

To be very frank, guys who laugh, especially at their own jokes are extremely rare.. Really rare. Most guys don't laugh. They stay serious making it very difficult to talk to them. 

I can never talk to serious guys because they take everything seriously. They have like a chip on their shoulders. I'm like "dude whatever" kind of reaction face. 

I get along well with men who laugh with me. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

@tatsumaru I like big hearted, extrovert and laughing accommodating containing men. 

Because I'm an introvert lol. 

They are rare but they are a prize. 

Men who don't laugh, appear miserable are big jackasses to deal with. They are always critical piece of snob and whining. 

 

[tatsumaru]

14 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

@tatsumaru I like big hearted, extrovert and laughing accommodating containing men. 

Because I'm an introvert lol.

Interesting, I always thought that like attracts like (aka introvert attracts introverts).

[Preety_India]

Just now, tatsumaru said:

Interesting, I always thought that like attracts like (aka introvert attracts introverts).

I always thought opposites attract each other lol.