Messy( hurt feelings )

[Preety_India]

Yes. Sometimes. 

Edited April 28, 2021 by Preety_India

[Preety_India]

Going to add this in forum entries later. 

Saving it here for the time being

 

A real man is someone who:

1. very strong emotionally and psychologically. 
2. doesn't get afraid easily 
3. very patient and can tolerate a lot 
4. a leader and an example for others 
5. has good integration for the feminine as well
6. very calm and in peace 
7. expressive and can convey love 
8. doesn't break under pressure 
9. is not afraid of others' opinions 

 

[Preety_India]

There are 2 forms of acceptance or two ways to describe acceptance.. 

 

[Preety_India]

Absolutism and nuances. 

Will write about this later.. 

[Preety_India]

After going through some of the stuff here, realized that most people here are wealthier and financially  better off than me.

Obviously they are going to have cushy lives. 

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Well the real curse is being born poor and being born in an Indian family to top it off. 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Why should it matter?

[Preety_India]

When you live in society you have to hear what people say. There is no escape. 

Wherever you go, people will say things. 

Today Leo said on the forum that Americans treat their dogs better than Indians treat their children. 

It stung. 

Not gonna lie, I felt humiliated.  It wasn't exactly racial but he probably should have been more sensitive. 

Also it reminded me of the phrase in the British colonial era -

"Indians and dogs are not allowed.  "

 

These kind of things hurt. 

 

The privilege that rich people have in talking down to the poor. 

It's not something you brush under the carpet

 

 

 

[Preety_India]

Being an Indian is a very difficult thing in this world. I've to be very raw about my feelings.