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Having a sense of Control over Life

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4 words 

  • Connection. ( Genuine and helpful and sensitive) 
  • Sense of control of every aspect 
  • Alignment (resonance). 
  • Acceptance. Radical acceptance. 
  • Sensitivity 

 

 


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Whatever be the status quo of the system, regardless of whatever, a person should have to feel cared for and there is no excuse in the whole universe why a person should not have to feel cared for.. 

 


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Don't compromise with sensibility for emotions. 

 


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What do you want? 

What kind of life do you imagine? 

 


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1 hour ago, Preety_India said:

 

4 words 

  • Connection. ( Genuine and helpful and sensitive) 
  • Sense of control of every aspect 
  • Alignment (resonance). 
  • Acceptance. Radical acceptance. 
  • Sensitivity 

 

 

Along with this authenticity and sensibility as well. 

 


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Choose sensibility over empathy..

Empathy without sensibility won't make much of a difference. 

 


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Just ghost and block them and be done with it. 

Peace. Say - No time for fakers. 

Say no to - 

Fake friends and mind games players. 

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Never give too much benefit of the doubt to those who don't care to even respond. 

If left unattended, stuff like this tends to clog life. 

Just block. There are other important people who need your time. 

Make important friends not any friends. 

 

Honestly it's not a pity party. 

It's your authentic side finally  speaking  for itself. 

 

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Some pointers

 

  • Connection. ( Genuine and helpful and sensitive) 

 

  • Sense of control of every aspect of life 

 

  •  Alignment (resonance). 

 

  • Acceptance. Radical acceptance

 

  • Sensitivity

 

  • Measured empathy. Sensible Empathy 

 

  • authenticity

 

  • sensibility

 

  • Awareness 

 

  • Integration

 

 

 

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Writing style 

 

I want this writing style. Like 2 concise  blocks or paras. 

Quote

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From what I have looked into the large fish contain a lot more heavy metals and toxins. Fish wish you want to eat smaller ones that give a lot of the benefits. Or better yet you could eat what those bottom feeders would eat like spirulina and algae. There is still nutrients in those larger fish. If you do decide to go with them, then I would make sure they are wild caught and not farmed fish. 

A big problem with fish now too is how much plastic is in the ocean. I had seen something recently saying by 2050 there will likely be more weight in plastic, then the weight of actual aquatic life in the oceans. This plastic gets broken down into little chunks called micro plastics. This gets loaded into these fishes and other aquatic life, then ends up in you. 

 


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From what I have looked into the large fish contain a lot more heavy metals and toxins. Fish wish you want to eat smaller ones that give a lot of the benefits. Or better yet you could eat what those bottom feeders would eat like spirulina and algae. There is still nutrients in those larger fish. If you do decide to go with them, then I would make sure they are wild caught and not farmed fish. 

A big problem with fish now too is how much plastic is in the ocean. I had seen something recently saying by 2050 there will likely be more weight in plastic, then the weight of actual aquatic life in the oceans. This plastic gets broken down into little chunks called micro plastics. This gets loaded into these fishes and other aquatic life, then ends up in you. 

 

^ the above writing pattern. Concise and 2 paras. 

Also this style as well with multiple paragraphs but proper delineation. 

 

 

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Writing style 1

 

My whole life I've eaten shit-tier junk food. The other day I had 2 large pizza slices, fries, a bacon burrito, barbeque ribs, and a chocolate chip muffin for one meal (just to give you an idea).

I just made Leo's "Super Healthy Vegetable Soup" and it was actually pretty good. I also had a fruit smoothie, salmon with salty flavory marinade, along with salted pistachio nuts. Leo's "How to shop for healthy foods" video didn't mention fish, at least I don't recall, nor did it mention pistachio nuts. I feel like I could eat this every day from now on, but oddly enough I felt a sort of fatigue as I was eating this food. It seemed a bit worse than the fatigue I get after eating junk food, which seemed odd (but didn't last quite as long, I felt fine after an hour). 

It's obviously better than what I'd been eating, but I'm hoping someone can confirm that it's fine having pistachios and salmon everyday along with my new healthy soup & smoothies.

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From what I have looked into the large fish contain a lot more heavy metals and toxins. Fish wish you want to eat smaller ones that give a lot of the benefits. Or better yet you could eat what those bottom feeders would eat like spirulina and algae. There is still nutrients in those larger fish. If you do decide to go with them, then I would make sure they are wild caught and not farmed fish. 

 

A big problem with fish now too is how much plastic is in the ocean. I had seen something recently saying by 2050 there will likely be more weight in plastic, then the weight of actual aquatic life in the oceans. This plastic gets broken down into little chunks called micro plastics. This gets loaded into these fishes and other aquatic life, then ends up in you

 

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Writing style 3

 

You are not being aggressive enough, not in behavior, but in approach. 

You aren't aggressively chasing your goals. 

Seems like you lack passion. Maybe there are a few limiting beliefs causing hesitation and failure. 

A girl having a boyfriend doesn't matter 

Your presence can be so strong that she might leave her boyfriend to come with you. 

You need to improve your confidence and not appear needy.. Or else every girl will appear as 'not available.' 

  • You lack confidence 
  • You lack charisma 
  • You get needy 

These above things are the root cause of your failure in having an engaging relationship. 

Build confidence, build charisma and drop the neediness. 

That way more girls would get attracted to you. 

 

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I have created a new system and I'll call it the Consolidative System 

 

It consists of the following : - 

 

Connection. ( Genuine and helpful and sensitive) 

 

Sense of control of every aspect of life 

 

 Alignment (resonance). 

 

Acceptance. Radical acceptance

 

Sensitivity

 

Measured empathy. Sensible Empathy 

 

authenticity

 

sensibility

 

Awareness 

 

Integration

The symbol of this system is

 

 

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3 systems. 

 

 

 Consolidative System 

 

 

 

 

 


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4 hours ago, Preety_India said:

 

I have created a new system and I'll call it the Consolidative System 

 

It consists of the following : - 

 

Connection. ( Genuine and helpful and sensitive) 

 

Sense of control of every aspect of life 

 

 Alignment (resonance). 

 

Acceptance. Radical acceptance

 

Sensitivity

 

Measured empathy. Sensible Empathy 

 

authenticity

 

sensibility

 

Awareness 

 

Integration

The symbol of this system is

 

 

52yj87.jpg

 

 

 

 


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On 22/03/2021 at 11:20 PM, Preety_India said:

 

So I have the purple clover leaf model ready.

 

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1. Blue Ball of Motivation. 

 

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2. String of hearts. For both focus and flow 

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3. Progress rate /rate of impact 

 

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4. Reward tracking - Jar of toffees

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