Omar Lora

How To Deal With A Breakup by Leo

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Hey,

So, I recently have been dealing with this break up for almost a month now. I felt like I lost the love of my life. Today felt like crap, especially this morning (like every morning).

Until later today.

I was attempting to see how I can salvage anything between us by listening to binaurals on "how to get back with your ex" and what not (strangely, it works)

Anyhoo, during commute, I finally decided to listen to Leo's Video about "How to Deal With A Breakup" on my way home from work.

What he pointed out felt exactly what I needed to hear. For reasons being, I had extreme lack of experience and became needy after the break up. Beating myself up wishing I could have done things that I wasn't aware of at the time. Even held back on reading "Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida several times because every chapter took me back to almost every mistake I wish I hadn't caused.

What blew me away was towards the end of the video. If I were to go back to this relationship, I will not evolve as the man I've been seeking to be. My life purpose is to find myself. I've been too dependent on finding love before loving myself. 

Even moreso, "DO NOT GO BACK TO YOUR EX"

I fucking bawled my eyes out in public because it made so much sense. Minutes later, I decided to sign up for a gym membership. Just got back from working out, about to meditate after writing this post and wanted to share this piece about me. I would hope that this will resonate and help whoever is on the same boat.

Appreciate the pain that you are dealing with. And please watch "How To Deal With A Breakup" if you're struggling. It fucking sucks, but it depends on how you deal with the pain.

For my sake, the biggest regret that I'll ever have before I die, is not being myself. I think an old man once said that and has stuck with me since.

 

- Omar

 

 

 

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Yeah, it's only after 4/5 stupid break up that I personally stopped being needy and actually get my shit together.

Even with having the relationships concepts in mind and doing lots of consciousness work, it still took that much time to finally be healthy and genuinely manly.

So I bet that if you don't, you could stay in an endless loop of break up and failed relationships, which is the norm actually.

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God is love

Whoever lives in love lives in God

And God in them

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