Elders on this forum: What advice would you give to your late 30s self?

[outlandish]

Anyone in their 60s+ or so on here? If you could go back in time, what advice would you give to yourself as you were entering into middle age?

 

(A question on the Dating, Relationships, Sexuality forum reminded me of some advice I would have liked to give myself as a teen - late adult. Some things you really have to go through in your life, but I think some key insights earlier on could have saved a lot of wheel-spinning and led to a genuinely more resplendent life. So as I approach middle age, I ask our wiser companions: What insights can you share that you wish you realized going into your midlife?)

 

[GodMonkey]

Yes i would like to know too.