Accepting what actually is...

[NoSelfSelf]

Today i revisited video about neurosis (40 examples that you are neurotic) i recommend you to watch it again if you are on path of self realization it helped me to accept what actually is in profound way but one thing still confuses me paradox of self improvment is to aceppt what is but still work on yourself in authentic way towards self actualization Leo didnt mention what he meant by that(authentic).This Paradox is so tricky and contradictory it would be nice if @Leo Gura clear this one or someone who figured it out tnx...