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You are your own worst enemy

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Here Is a little resource for seeing where you still have victim mentality and the area's that you can improve upon. I got this from two of leo's video's

Almost nobody is fully proactive. There are always little areas in life that you still use the victim mentality. Like Confidence, Organization, Relationships, Happiness, Business. You can quickly recognize the areas where you are still in a reactive or victim mindset by looking at the language you use. Saying things like:

  • I can't
  • That's not me
  • It's impossible
  • It's too hard
  • Life is unfair
  • I must, I need to, I have to
  • I've never done that.
  • I don't know how to do that.
  • What if I fail?
  • It's his fault (blaming others)
  • I already tried that.
  • Never and always, that will never happens, I never get luck, I always fail.
  • I'll try
  • Maybe, I think, someday
  • I'm not good enough
  • There is no point
  • It's too late for me
  • Sure it sound great, but you have ..... I don't
  • But How? Research, trail and error.

By using the right mindset against a problem it will slowly dissolve.

 It's like all the beliefs you made for yourself are propped up in thrown in the back of your mind. Once there they continually effect your behaviour without you even knowing it. When you decide to take matters in your own hands you should try to get a hold of all your beliefs and begin to unfold them. This will bring them into your conscious attention from there you can begin to change them. Focus on your:

  • Mental filters
  • Attitudes
  • Limiting beliefs
  • Judgements
  • Assumptions
  • Lack of introspection
  • Your visualisations (the images you run through your mind)
  • Models of reality
  • Emotional reactions
  • Your views as right and wrong, good and evil
  • Your habits
  • Self-talk
  • Awareness
  • Ego
  • Consciousness

When you optimize these things you will reach a point where you can literally float through life. Actually not in this sense, you'll not actually float. But the actions you take will become so fluent that you don't even need to think about it.

If you liked this post, I got a video on my youtube channel it's called: Break Your Victim Mindset. click in autograph to go to my channel.

Have a great day ;)

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