How do you become grounded in life?

[Iblitan]

How do I develop groundedness and anchor myself when great tragedy befalls me like when a family member dies or when a significant other leaves? Whenever these events happen to me, I always find myself very depressed and even contemplating giving up. To me it feels like life is meaningless. I know meaning is relative but I just can't find meaning in my life. I tried finding my life purpose/passion but I failed miserably. I unfortunately can't afford leo's course. I crave direction in my life. Is a life purpose the only way to ground myself or are there other valid ways?

[Ramanujan]

look into stephen covey or david allen or bryan tracy. their teachings are practical

[Raze]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oM0KpfNPcGw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TsIXWUJhH1E

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lD1ny_Q8sKo