Very sweet yoga instructor girl at my Zumba class

[Emotionalmosquito]

26 minutes ago, PsychedelicEagle said:

you touching her, escalating physically

We’re literally not allowed to do that anymore without explicitly asking first and getting a very clear verbal yes. It’s not 2005. Maybe guys who know what they’re doing can afford to take the gamble. Touching without a person’s clear verbal consent can and does land people battery charges. 
 

I’ve never done anything like this before. 
 

See this is what’s so infuriating. While I’m sure what you and others keep telling me is largely valid, it’s also one of the number 1 things that kills my state. The fact that it has to be this way makes it challenging to not fall right back into blackpill and misogyny. You would think that after billions of years of evolution we would’ve been equipped with a better mating system than having to guess subconscious cues, perfectly analyze what all the little signals mean in real time and with no room for error, know how to go after what you want from her but in a way that’s not too pushy but also not passive and somehow figure out where exactly that line is with each new date without just plainly asking. 
 

Or instead of blaming evolution, could it be the more recent metoo sensationalism we can thank for creating this tangled labyrinth?