letting go of scarcity

[Olaf]

I was talking to a guy and he asked like if it is a good idea to message a girl from another account when blocked on an app. And I wanted to share on here what I told him, because I feel it was very true "If you have so little let it go, then you enter abundance, abundance is not having allot its about letting go of the little that you have" I gave him this advice, but I felt this is very true in my own life aswell. When I try too hard or whatever, I am literally holding on to the little that I have instead of letting it go, surrender. Not double texting, not chasing, just letting it go, going back to your own center.

I think this is very deep and goes way beyond dating. Being in scarcity is hell, because you have so little and on top of that you try to hold on to that little bit for deer life. In fact this is kind of the problem with falling in love, is you fall in love and see her as the only option when how much of that love is just anxious attachment? Because if Beyonce walked through the door and told you she loves you, would you still have this anxious attachment? If 10 woman who are exactly your dream woman would try to date you, right now, would you still have this anxious attachment to your girlfriend? No, more then likely you would do an RAS flip and break up with your girlfriend, you might say you won't, but humans are opportunistic and we rationalise our behavior. 

Anyways back to my point, I just wanted to share on here this idea of abundance, I think I haven't spoken about abundance in such an accurate way ever. It reminded me of Tony Robbins who said that he only had 20 dollars or something and that he gave that money to some child who wanted food. How he didn't have much, but that little that he had, he was able to let it go and he said in that moment something changed in him. I can't find the video, but when I have found it, I will share it on here.

Edited Thursday at 02:13 AM by Olaf