range of expression

[Olaf]

What part of yourself are you not expressing? You are only as interesting as your range of expression, if you are only positive, you are hiding your negative side. If you are only negative you are hiding your positive side. What part of you are you hiding? If you talk are you afraid to stand up for yourself or are you afraid to be a little mean or are you afraid to speak loudly, I believe that we are as attractive as our range of expression is. This is actually much of what Julien teaches which is to find out what part of yourself you are not expressing and on purpose start expressing it so that you increase your range of expression. 

[Rafael Thundercat]

The Dynamic of Being Bad - Dating, Sexuality, Relationships, Family - Actualized.org Forum https://share.google/pUor8rCOAfY3e7Hnf

That is something this guy on Youtube talks about. If you are only nice and sweet all the time, soon or later life in form of others will confront you and the reasons you are stuck in only one set of emotions. Emotions Move so to get stuck in the good guy good girl set is not healty  first for oneself and for the relationships with others.