What red pill books are actually good?

[LordFall]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

Since I discovered this egregor I have become paranoid and I am afraid of appearing “simp” all the time.

It's important to understand the deeper mechanisms at play in attraction and not just the surface level tactics. Some dating coaches talk about never simping or appearing high value.

I like the definition of simping that says operating in a framework where you're getting less value than you're giving out in a relationship with a woman. So that could be simping for IG models that don't acknowledge your existence, being the beta orbiter that does a ton of favors for a girl that doesn't do much for you, or even these dynamics can exist in a toxic one-sided marriage.

The greater lesson is to understand social dynamics and awareness of the world so you can recognize when you're taken advantage of. When your "simping" is reciprocated, that's not a bad thing that's called an awesome relationship.

It's also why it's important to offer a lot of value to others. People that simp usually don't offer much and think their interest in women is gonna be enough. 

Edited 8 hours ago by LordFall