another weekend another lesson

[Olaf]

So again approached a bit, I didn´t have such a good weekend, I was sick for a few days aswell so that effected my overall energy and wanting to socialise etc. Despite that I learned my strengths and weaknesses this weekend, my strength is my ability to get into state and approach a ton. From all my wingmen I am almost always the one who approached the most. My wingmen even says like I am hawk looking for its prey hahaha so that is both bad and good. Good in the sense that you can get into flow etc. Bad because you focus on momentum, flow, authenticity and less on really technical shit.

Another mistake is that I push my wingmen sometimes a bit too obviously for the woman to notice at times and rush myself a bit too much, like fast walking/no chill relaxed walking around, probably nerves or some shit. Atleast I am taking fucking action, like fuck, I am ahead of most guys who only comment on this and never approach. I feel that I need to work on technique, the guy who is most focused on technique is doing the longest conversations and is closing the most numbers. Where as I am in flow much more then him most of the time, but my game is quite inner game, I need the outer game a bit more when approaching.

We had a new guy and actually the guy who is most theoretical was able to give him good things to practice and I pushed him both in flow and in sets, so we make a great team to accelerate a newbie very quickly. We pushed him to approach 30 woman and he did really really well he even closed a number today. I think theory is what I should work on, this whole idea that it only is inner game might be true for night game, but during the day you need more structure I believe, especially as when they get disinterested, they can easily walk away and the odds are against you, because they have things to do. Next weekend will be better, but we did our best.

Last thing I would say was today I was walking back to the train station and I wasn't focused on girls anymore and didn't want to talk to a single person anymore, because I was done with socialising after doing if it for hours. All of a sudden all the woman started looking at me, it wasn't just me noticing it, the other guys said they were all looking at me too, so I wasn't making this shit up. Very strange.

Edited August 30 by Olaf