finding your type

[Ulax]

1 hour ago, Olaf said:

@Ulax of course you want some outcome eventually, but don´t approach with the outcome for that day/week/month your building a skillset that helps you eventually, not directly. Today just as a warm up I gave compliments and even the difference between having the outcome to have a long conversation versus a small warm up interaction, their responses were completly different, everytime during that approach they were so thankful, compared to when I approach with outcome focused of having a longer conversation, so keep that in mind, one girl even said "I love you" after the first compliment, you make someones day, not everything is about your outcome eventually anyways. 

You misunderstand my point

[Olaf]

@Ulax what is your point?

 

[Ulax]

3 minutes ago, Olaf said:

@Ulax what is your point?

 

Any time you interact with someone you have an outcome in my mind

[Olaf]

@Ulax well your outcome could simply be to say hi, I don't have an outcome in mind everytime, I sometimes even chat up guys, just chit chatting no outcome.