importance of community

[Olaf]

I feel that if you are in ego, you want to do everything on your own, yet you can go fast alone, but much faster together. You approach a girl, get rejected, you feel down, then your wingmen is there to pull you up, your coach is there to support you, your mentor, community, support system can either bring eachother down or build eachother up. Imagine if we all hype each other up and get in state. We would do much better then critizising and judging eachother especially when out and approaching, but also in other areas. Not only in approaching, but in business etc. For most areas I have had mentors and people in the community, we lean on eachother and that is important and I start to realise how it is more important then I might have thought before.

Like imagine having someone to hype you up next to you, what can't you do? This is the power of community to me, also the problem is that most of the communities do the opposite, bring eachother down and that only leads to a worse hell. Maybe you are not doing wrong, maybe you have the wrong people around you who are there to bring you down rather then to build you up. If you have people pulling you down, it is like swimming against the stream, when you are building yourself up and people around you are there to hype you up, it is easy.

The momentum is there and you might get a bit delusional in state, but that doesn't matter, in fact a bit of delusion is necessary. Men always think that logical and technical shit is the most important thing when many times what we need isn't more techniques but people to hype you up, which is emotional. Woman already know this and they do all this "slay queen" whatever shit hahaha and let them do that, but we men sometimes forget that. That we aren't doing bad, we are just in a bad mood and community is the easiest way to get you into a good mood when it is the right community.

[LordFall]

100% bro. I know you said you don't like the idea of social circle game but I'll give you an easy way to use your recent free tour experience to start to scale and leverage your life.

Just make an instagram group chat with all the guys that you thought were cool from that event and start gaming with them regularly. That's your own inner circle now. Then organize an event together that you can each use to pitch to girls you cold approach. You're in Amsterdam right can you a group picnic by the canal with a big speaker and make a flyer for it in 2 mins on Gemini and in 2 weeks you guys host it on Sunday and 5 guys bring 5 girls each now you not only will probably get laid from that and possibly in a threesome since the ratio is so in your favor, you have become a local community leader and started an events brand for free. 

[Olaf]

@LordFall yes I already created a group of 24 people already in my country who I will game with regularly, I know you push this social circle thing, but we will see, I might do it. Anyways, I do noticed such a difference in approaching together versus alone. Huge fucking difference and you can bring eachother into state. 

[LordFall]

1 minute ago, Olaf said:

@LordFall yes I already created a group of 24 people already in my country who I will game with regularly, I know you push this social circle thing, but we will see, I might do it. Anyways, I do noticed such a difference in approaching together versus alone. Huge fucking difference and you can bring eachother into state. 

Sweet man, you're killing it. That's how I first started getting result, doing it with other guys that were ahead of me and I thought their results were insane and they were so much cooler than me and I learned from osmosis and ended up throwing some mind blowing events with some of them and creating some of the best memories of my entire life thus far. Excited for your journey, I think you're gonna enjoy it a lot! 

Remember always wear protection.

Or don't, the global demographics are looking weak we need to pump those numbers up! 

[Olaf]

@LordFall I had sex with my ex girlfriend without a condom, so happy she didn't got pregnant, looking back I would never take that risk again, she also wasn't on the pill or anything. Hahaha, crazy young stupid shit.