feeling myself becoming more confident

[Olaf]

So I approached again today, this time in a small city, which is actually something I recommend trying if you haven't already. In my experience, approaching during the day in small cities has a much more relaxed vibe because you're away from the hectic, fast-paced city, unless you already live in a small city, of course. I live in Amsterdam, so going to a small city feels like visiting a village, and I feel like I'm just going for a walk in the park. Another reason it's good is that girls also seem to be less in a rush and much more receptive, in my experience. They even stumble over their words and laugh when you approach, probably because no one has approached them before in their little city, or because I'm attractive, one of the two, lol.

So today, what I noticed was the momentum of confidence. Confidence starts to make me want to take bolder actions. It's not that I have to or force myself to take bolder actions, but I do it because I'm drawn to it. Not super bold actions like the more experienced guys, but, for example, today I approached a girl who had headphones on for the first time. I normally ignore girls with earbuds or headphones on, but I wanted to challenge myself somehow. Another example was a girl sitting at a café drinking coffee. I normally don't go up to someone sitting on a terrace, because I feel it might be inappropriate, but again, I found myself not giving a fuck. This is the momentum that comes with becoming more confident. You just want to challenge yourself for the sake of breaking boundaries or something, confidence makes you bolder.

We live in a society with all kinds of rules in our minds, and we tend to adhere to them. But sometimes you should just think, "I see a girl, I want to talk to her, fuck the rules." Now, of course, within reason, but you get what I mean, not always being a polite/good/normal citizen. You want to be bolder. Confidence makes you want to take bolder actions, and who knows how much bolder I'll get. This is probably nothing to some of you more advanced guys who, I guess, would just approach a whole group of ten women or whatever other challenges there are.

Actually, anyone struggling with approaching woman, I would recommend day game, it is so much more relaxing than night game as the whole status games in clubs are kinda exhausting as well as the people being drunk etc. I don't like it that much anymore: I might change my mind later, but as of now I am enjoying day game and it feels healthy and enjoyable. Also a good exercise to walk so much, which probably also helps with the flow state, especially in calmer places, like a small city, which makes you feel calm and present.

Overall, this was a good day, and I can sleep well knowing that I did what I was supposed to do, and more. Thank you.

Edited 1 hour ago by Olaf