I'm done pursuing women

[Miguel1]

28 minutes ago, Raze said:

Except Bradicus himself said comfort through safety and empathy is more important than attraction

Of course comfort and safety is important, just not as important as attraction and strenght. And comfort and safety most of the time destroys attraction.

[Valach]

8 minutes ago, Miguel1 said:

Of course comfort and safety is important, just not as important as attraction and strenght. And comfort and safety most of the time destroys attraction.

Especially for traumatized people - because these people did not experience properly what comfort and safety feels like when growing up and then it pushes them away because it is the unknown. And subconcious mind always interprets the unknown as danger. And that is going to be majority of woman (and men too) sadly.

Edited 1 hour ago by Valach

[LordFall]

33 minutes ago, Raze said:

Except you endorsed RSD Luke and he said comfort comes before attraction

Quote: “When cold approaching in a social setting you want to open in such a way that builds comfort first. This also applies to cold approach game as well” & “Now that we built comfort you can break it in order to spark a baseline level of attraction”

Source: social circle blueprint 2.0 module 4 action plan page 14

There are different levels of comfort. When you are doing a cold approach you are at a stranger danger level of comfort before you hook the set. Then you attract her enough that she wants to give you her IG and see you again. You don't start out by approaching a stranger and asking about their deepest life struggles and saying that they can call you anytime if they need help lol

He is also talking about inside a container event or a social circle. You would go for building rapport instead of doing a pickup routine. 

It's hard to generalize every case but you need both comfort and attraction triggers to be successful with women en masse. People don't understand this advice and opt for nice guy game and being an emotional tampon for a girl because building attraction is harder and then complain when they don't have results. Using comfort to get into a girls pants is also indirect and a bit predatory so it's not really that comfortable and safe after all if you secretly want her to fuck you but you haven't had the courage in the weeks/months/years that you've known her to hit on her.

Also 99% of men struggle with attraction not comfort. That would be like having many girls that you fuck regularly but you have trauma and commitment issues so you chase away the ones that want to actually be there for you by acting distant and aloof. Some men are in that phase of their game journey but not many here lol. 

Or picture a business man or executive who lacks the communication and emotional control skills to explain to his partner that he is stressed due to work and instead snaps at her and is an unpleasant man to be around due to his fear of vulnerability instead of being able to skillfully recruit his women's femininity to soothe his worries and make them feel better in the process. 

Notice both of these cases make logical sense because the man offers upfront value and thus has women in his lie and then the comfort becomes an issue. If homeboy is randomly at school and there are girls in his friend group and he has a crush on one and he is butt hurt that she is not enthusiastically dating him that is not a comfort issue. That is a he doesn't know enough hot girls and/or isn't doing enough cool things in life that they are continuously asking to come to his events and/or hangout with him problem. 

The average guy does not have a comfort problem. They have a getting beat down by society to the point where they are irrelevant and powerless problem. 

Here is a clip for example. It features Triple H from the D-Generation X in the 90s when WWE as really popular and a fangirl flashes her tits at him. Let's break down how that works. Life is hard and boring. This guy has a personal brand and performs publicly for people and is one of the best in the world at it. Girl is bored and goes to his event. He gives her attention, she gives him compliance and flashes her tits. The attraction created the comfort. He created attraction by taking action and working on his brand and career and giving his fans value. He does not complain about the market being too tough and women being shallow and the bad economy in the 90s, etc. This is value giving, it's like the sun it provides warmth for people that have a hard life. That's why creating content that women watch and events that women go to is so important. You go from being an irrelevant male that's mad he doesn't get laid to an active part of their life and their thoughts.

https://www.instagram.com/reels/Dagay1qIVL6/

Edited 1 hour ago by LordFall