Why Women Carry an Energy Men Naturally Seek

[LordFall]

I think polarity is the core concept you point at. The masculine is usually closed off, solving problems and conflict oriented. If you identify with that version of masculinity then a being who's more freeflowing, relaxed and like focused on painting their nails and doing their hair nice is gonna feel like a beautiful and needed contrast to you. 

It's funny because even in bisexuality I'm mostly attracted to only feminine men. And femboys tend to not really fit in with traditional masculinity and focus more on authentic self-expression. It works for my personality type because I like to spend all day thinking about problems and working on business so the more financially free I am the more I can attract that type of man and women in my life and have them mesh well with me.

I can also find those aspects of carefreeness and relaxation in my own self and sometimes it feels good to relax into that and for me it manifests more as childlike enjoyment rather than feminine traits but it can be interpertred in all kinds of ways I guess. Gender roles also have to do with your life goals and identity, it's interesting to deconstruct them. 

I'm a big fan of performed femininity and usually the cost for that is that you perform masculinity in return. When done right this polarity is pretty fun for both polarities. In a few years when my business cashflow is really solid I don't mind sugaring my partners so they don't have to work and I get their undivided energy. I've met a lot of especially career women who end up jaded bitter and unpleasant due to being stressed and exposed to cortisol all day. I want my partners to perhaps post content and have their own brand but to mostly chill and socialize on their day to day while I worry about paying the bills, the AI revolution and scaling our lifestyles. 

Edited 5 hours ago by LordFall

[Monster Energy]

54 minutes ago, LordFall said:

I think polarity is the core concept you point at. The masculine is usually closed off, solving problems and conflict oriented. If you identify with that version of masculinity then a being who's more freeflowing, relaxed and like focused on painting their nails and doing their hair nice is gonna feel like a beautiful and needed contrast to you. 

It's funny because even in bisexuality I'm mostly attracted to only feminine men. And femboys tend to not really fit in with traditional masculinity and focus more on authentic self-expression. It works for my personality type because I like to spend all day thinking about problems and working on business so the more financially free I am the more I can attract that type of man and women in my life and have them mesh well with me.

I can also find those aspects of carefreeness and relaxation in my own self and sometimes it feels good to relax into that and for me it manifests more as childlike enjoyment rather than feminine traits but it can be interpertred in all kinds of ways I guess. Gender roles also have to do with your life goals and identity, it's interesting to deconstruct them. 

I'm a big fan of performed femininity and usually the cost for that is that you perform masculinity in return. When done right this polarity is pretty fun for both polarities. In a few years when my business cashflow is really solid I don't mind sugaring my partners so they don't have to work and I get their undivided energy. I've met a lot of especially career women who end up jaded bitter and unpleasant due to being stressed and exposed to cortisol all day. I want my partners to perhaps post content and have their own brand but to mostly chill and socialize on their day to day while I worry about paying the bills, the AI revolution and scaling our lifestyles. 

Interesting perspective. I think polarity is something most people overlook. 

 

[LordFall]

2 hours ago, Monster Energy said:

Interesting perspective. I think polarity is something most people overlook. 

 

Totally its really beautiful. It's what you love in the universe but not necessarily as yourself. A lot of men especially demonize feminine traits because they aim to build themselves in a different way but don't realize that femininity is what they love most in the world the hyper competence/stoicism is just what buys it in the paradigm they currently live in.