Dealing with bullying, bad study environment

[ruralcitadel]

I got advice on this so I decided to remove this post. thank you!

Edited 2 hours ago by ruralcitadel
i didnt know that i cant delete posts here

[Human Mint]

Damn, you're really trapped in some drama out there. That's the outlook you should have here.

Best strategy? Give yourself more days to strategize what you're gonna do. You either change groups or continue with them with a very different attitude.

You said you never cared about nationalities but everything you talk about here revolves around races. But you writing this also indicates you are truly fed up about this, so don't give up.

[Elliott]

Try to find friends, other people's opinions won't matter to you if you have a supportive network of people.

I'm not sure it started out as bullying, some people are just anti-social(?your work partners?)

School is temporary, eventually hopefully you can find a good group to work with when you graduate. Why did you transfer schools?

[Basman]

If it's limited to just passive aggressiveness, then what does it matter? Just ignore it and focus on your goals. Most of your vent is about your own psychological reaction more than anything else. I recommend reading Taming Your Gremlin for dealing with negative feelings. 

I recommend treating classmate more as colleagues. Not necessarily trying to be friends with anyone. It's just business. Don't tell anyone anything personal. What happens happens. The rest is history. It doesn't matter if they dislike you as long as you reach your goals.

Be mindful if you are radiating neediness. It's stink aura. Makes people dislike you. Also that autism is a social disability. You might doing something annoying and not even realizing.

[Basman]

It can initially suck to feel excluded, but if people don't like you why would you want to be friends with them?

[ruralcitadel]

@Human Mint yes i dont care about it but its a real pattern that ive noticed. I have friends from different nationalities outside of class