Kindness is the #1 global partner preference

[enchanted]

Kindness ranks #1 in global long-term partner preferences: 117,293 people from 175 countries allocate a fixed 30 "importance points" across traits (2025 study) | PeakD https://share.google/aeY2BecUxei3EoNyq

Looks like nice guys finish first. 

Edited 20 hours ago by enchanted

[Shermaningeorgia]

kindness is nebulous.

[Basman]

Kindness is more about being trustworthy I think. Treating the other person's interests as your own.

And nice guys aren't kind. They act conditionally with the expectation that being nice will get them pussy. They can be very entitled and lash out if you don't give them what they want. They are low energy and low self-esteem.

Edited 5 hours ago by Basman

[Basman]

A nice guy is someone who can't express what they want directly, so they try to get things indirectly through manipulation. They see themselves as fundamentally unlovable (and thus tend to act like such).

Boogie is a very severe case of being a nice guy. This guy pretends he's Mr. Rogers while being a total cu** in private.