Women Should Know Her

[CARDOZZO]

This lady is a light in the darkness. If I was a woman, I would follow what she teaches about men.

I never seen a woman articulate so deeply what a man really needs. The way she respects and admires man/masculinity is extremely attractive.

Woman of the forum - read her books, watch all her content, you will be fine in the dating scene 

 

Edited Tuesday at 04:33 PM by CARDOZZO

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[Natasha Tori Maru]

I like her insights - although she is very very nonlinear thinker. It can be difficult to follow her without a good host to assist with some mild steering  Many of my female friends dislike some of her work, claiming she is reductionistic, overgeneralizes and can accidently reinforce outdated gender roles. While I can see their points - I think she is just more honest and truthful and they do not like to hear it!! I think some gender roles are natural to us, and many women suffer from trying to fit into a modern ideal of a 'woman' rather than what is true to their nature. Many modern women simply dismiss traditional masculinity without really looking into it or trying to understand it.

I first encountered her on Andre Duqum's channel:

 

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36 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I like her insights - although she is very very nonlinear thinker. It can be difficult to follow her without a good host to assist with some mild steering  Many of my female friends dislike some of her work, claiming she is reductionistic, overgeneralizes and can accidently reinforce outdated gender roles. While I can see their points - I think she is just more honest and truthful and they do not like to hear it!! I think some gender roles are natural to us, and many women suffer from trying to fit into a modern ideal of a 'woman' rather than what is true to their nature. Many modern women simply dismiss traditional masculinity without really looking into it or trying to understand it.

I first encountered her on Andre Duqum's channel:

 

The crazy shit about her work is that you learn to see masculinity as a woman sees it - AND IT IMPROVES YOUR OWN MASCULINITY.

When a man reads a book directed to woman on how to attract a man, he learns 2x. This is a mindfuck, because you can learn your blind spots, you can learn how a woman sees a man.

This is obvious but not so obvious  

Btw, how do you identify yourself? 

[Natasha Tori Maru]

51 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

The crazy shit about her work is that you learn to see masculinity as a woman sees it - AND IT IMPROVES YOUR OWN MASCULINITY.

When a man reads a book directed to woman on how to attract a man, he learns 2x. This is a mindfuck, because you can learn your blind spots, you can learn how a woman sees a man.

This is obvious but not so obvious  

I think these perspectives are essential! I love gathering all perspectives and viewpoints on topics - it is sort of my default way of thinking

52 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Btw, how do you identify yourself? 

As in man, women etc?

I identify as a women. I am quite feminine and present and conduct myself differently in real life compared to how I seem on the forums. I am much more cerebral and heavy on the intellectual side here, but intensely expressive, emotive and creative in real life. In terms of relationship dynamics I definitely benefit more from a man remaining in the leadership position so I can sit in my emotions (and I am actually... a hopeless romantic underneath it all!). I like to assist others in their mission when I find someone who is passionate and driven with good values. I can switch polarities very easily though. I learned this working in construction. Having said that - if a man is out of line or I straight disagree I will not be a doormat. I do not withhold truth because I am afraid to upset someone, and I do not people please. I know exactly when to hold a firm boundary because I know myself very well. Much better than when I was younger  

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13 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

I think these perspectives are essential! I love gathering all perspectives and viewpoints on topics - it is sort of my default way of thinking

As in man, women etc?

I identify as a women. I am quite feminine and present and conduct myself differently in real life compared to how I seem on the forums. I am much more cerebral and heavy on the intellectual side here, but intensely expressive, emotive and creative in real life. In terms of relationship dynamics I definitely benefit more from a man remaining in the leadership position so I can sit in my emotions (and I am actually... a hopeless romantic underneath it all!). I like to assist others in their mission when I find someone who is passionate and driven with good values. I can switch polarities very easily though. I learned this working in construction. Having said that - if a man is out of line or I straight disagree I will not be a doormat. I do not withhold truth because I am afraid to upset someone, and I do not people please. I know exactly when to hold a firm boundary because I know myself very well. Much better than when I was younger  

I see your yellowness 👁️

Oh, so you are on a spell to like man for rest of your life, damn 💀 that's hard 😂

Actually, it is refreshing to talk to woman without trying to seduce them. It's cool to understand woman on a more profound level without strings attached.

[Natasha Tori Maru]

1 minute ago, CARDOZZO said:

Oh, so you are on a spell to like man for rest of your life, damn 💀 that's hard 😂

Ha ha ha - I know what I am in for  Been through many breakups and relationships. Long, short - all different levels of monogamy/openness. I know I prefer dudes and just simply monogamy.

3 minutes ago, CARDOZZO said:

Actually, it is refreshing to talk to woman without trying to seduce them. It's cool to understand woman on a more profound level without strings attached.

 I enjoy this forum just to speak to the guys here and help them understand women outside of just trying to 'get' something from them. It removes a layer of need & changes the dynamic of a situation. I think growing up having sisters helps men in this way also. I also enjoy learning the males perspective on women here (even if some of it is unhealthy or ignorant) - really really opens up your eyes to the different axis of issues men face. I just think blaming women or blaming men for the other sex's issues with each other is the stupidest shit I have ever seen!

Although I will admit, going by a lot of experience here (and the real world), I do not think I fit the normal model for a women. I am way less swept up in emotions, anxiety and safety concerns. Much more mechanical minded and process driven. Pay less attention to my own emotions and I can also wantonly disregard others emotion if I think a rational outcome is more important than emotional safety (I have been accused of being callous). All this is not to say 'I am so special weeee!'. I just see the difference in all my female friends, sister, mother and grandmother.

Enjoy your content keep it up - I can tell you have grown and really raised your awareness a lot in your break!! Don't be a stranger

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19 minutes ago, Natasha Tori Maru said:

Ha ha ha - I know what I am in for  Been through many breakups and relationships. Long, short - all different levels of monogamy/openness. I know I prefer dudes and just simply monogamy.

 I enjoy this forum just to speak to the guys here and help them understand women outside of just trying to 'get' something from them. It removes a layer of need & changes the dynamic of a situation. I think growing up having sisters helps men in this way also. I also enjoy learning the males perspective on women here (even if some of it is unhealthy or ignorant) - really really opens up your eyes to the different axis of issues men face. I just think blaming women or blaming men for the other sex's issues with each other is the stupidest shit I have ever seen!

Although I will admit, going by a lot of experience here (and the real world), I do not think I fit the normal model for a women. I am way less swept up in emotions, anxiety and safety concerns. Much more mechanical minded and process driven. Pay less attention to my own emotions and I can also wantonly disregard others emotion if I think a rational outcome is more important than emotional safety (I have been accused of being callous). All this is not to say 'I am so special weeee!'. I just see the difference in all my female friends, sister, mother and grandmother.

Enjoy your content keep it up - I can tell you have grown and really raised your awareness a lot in your break!! Don't be a stranger

I got you. You feel like an alien. I don't know why but I think that all members on this forum has a kind of rebelliousness inside them, a fire for the unknown.

I cannot imagine what it is for a woman who knows all that knowledge to be called a "woman" in a normal sense, like, insta girl/coachella types 😋

Like when a dude express that he doesn't drink or watch football. "Is he a man? I never seen this type of guy." 💀😂