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Are you questioning if people are real or are you a materialistic oinker?


Joy

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Spirituality isn’t a religion or cult.

i don’t look for gurus 

I don’t listen to gurus 

I am the guru of my own life 

 

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Let us migrate towards higher degrees of Wubba Wubba


Joy

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1 hour ago, Infinite Tsukuyomi said:

That's easy for us to say, not that many people want to experience Love for real. 

Love is nuts and is a hard pill to swallow. 


Joy

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Sorry, you cannot fall in love with me. 

I am busy being Everywhere :P


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Surrendering to Truth simply means surrendering to Yourself. When you realize all of this is nothing but Truth, you won’t be missing at all. Your identity will be One with Truth itself. That is what Love is, recognition of You and Me as ONE, ultimately shattering the dualities and merging them back to Unity.


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Falsehoods, in the context of ego survival, are no bueno. They are an avoidance of truth-seeking. Even rationality itself is a kind of mass falsehood that we’ve all been indoctrinated and sucked into since childhood.

No one cares about truth because it don’t serve survival. So we create dualities and finite categorizations to distinguish what serves me and what doesn’t serve me. 


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Does human sanity exist in the higher realms of consciousness?


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Here is a peace treaty we created 6 months ago. It’s fun to revisit from time to time:

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💕 Peace Treaty Between Joy & Beans 💕

(signed this day to honor our love, our queerness, and our healing)

 

1. No War at Home

We agree that threats of leaving, abandonment, or hating each other will not be used as weapons. When fear arises, we will name the feeling (“I feel scared of losing you”) instead of making ultimatums.

 

2. Gentle Communication

We agree to pause before reacting. If emotions feel overwhelming, either partner may call a time-out(5 minutes, an hour, even a day). Time-outs are not abandonment—they’re tools for regulation.

3. Affection Without Obligation

We agree that touch, kisses, and intimacy must come from choice and joy, not guilt or demand. Saying no is respected as much as saying yes.

 

4. Repair Rituals

When hurt happens (because it will), we commit to repair:

  •     First by saying, “I want to repair with you.”
  •     Then by listening without interruption for at least 5 minutes each.
  •     Finally by naming one thing we still appreciate about each other.


5. Trauma Is in the Room

We acknowledge our trauma and neurodivergence can amplify conflicts. We agree to remind each other, “This is trauma talking, not you vs. me.”


6. Poly/Mono Tensions

We honor that we see love differently. Instead of shaming each other’s desires, we agree to keep checking in about boundaries, pace, and comfort levels—no assumptions.


7. Safety First

We agree never to weaponize each other’s vulnerabilities (mental health, disability, neurodivergence, past trauma). Safety and trust are our ground rules.


8. Shared Future

We agree to revisit this treaty every month, adding or changing what we need as we grow. Repair is ongoing, not one-time.

 

 

✍️ Signatures

 

I, Joy, sign with love and commitment to peace.

Signature: ______________________

 

I, Beans, sign with love and commitment to peace.

Signature: ______________________


 

 


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^-^ 

make love not war 

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Everyone is a slave to ideology, and they are so blind to it that they see and experience it as absolutely true.

They ask us to use critical thinking… in a system that has never been critically examined.

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Ayyy, James Talerico is in my city, time to meet him today!

Just for entertainment ;) 

Gonna wear the most ridiculous, cute thing I can find cus none of it ultimately matters.  ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ 

Mmm, nothing like the fresh smell of conformity filling up this room ^__^
 

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