A 9/10 neighbour CLOSED ME on a cold approach

[Lucasxp64]

She was the one that wanted to close me. But I think she's just being friendly, but that's progress for me already.

Looks wise and personality so far seems wife material.

I just went for a walk without any intentions of doing approaches, last approach I did was a month ago and I had got laid but she broke up due to reasons outside of my control.

I basically just did chit-chatting about her dog and said I had a similar one, and she already asked for a photo to see her. She was proactive to ask me what I did (study, work, etc) and I just began showing authoritative knowledge in business/marketing, and she was interested in improving her career and when we got back home she ask for my contact info to continue talking and handed her phone to me to find myself on Instagram.

We have been having some light chit-chatting.

But regardless of any kind of results, I'm so glad that I was able to do that so automatically without thinking twice because I found her attractive from far away and went towards her direction and tried to find a good approach angle that would be natural.

I didn't display nervousness, I was super chill. I even let myself stare into her eyes for 4 good seconds several times while trying to recall some information saying absolutely nothing.

Even if she is not interested and attracted, I feel like it's a win that I was able to make her feel safe and interested in at least talking to me. That's a good base level to work from going forward.

I actually did groom my beard and my hair was all messy for 2 weeks now, and I had groomed myself to go to a church event but I got there too late, and I just decided to take a walk instead, and this opportunity came.

I wasn't even meant to go out of my house and I was feeling kinda like crap, but it happened. Last time I got laid similarly.

I'm not good looking, I'm average at best, skinny, not muscular, suspicious curly hair, patchy beard, sneakers looked dirty, and my clothing didn't look stylish.

I'm not sure that overtime the house of cards would go down because I basically have the same clothings and I'm completely broke if I showed up for dates (last time the date was just to talk sitting on the bench and we went for her house within the same day lmao). But it was nice not to feel like I'm repulsive lol.

But I can just be chill and carry a conversation, tease and make a few jokes.

Edited yesterday at 03:42 PM by Lucasxp64

[TheCloud]

Good for you!  Opportunities aren't always about what we deserve, but what we take action on.

[Lucasxp64]

6 hours ago, TheCloud said:

Good for you!  Opportunities aren't always about what we deserve, but what we take action on.

🤯 WHAT THE HECK. She did admit to me yesterday that she likes me, that she found me intelligent and likes my personality.

I'm in awe, even if this doesn't even go anywhere. But I'll keep treating her normally like any other girl. All the time I wasted doing chatting with women that lives too far to met has paid off, but I could have seized so much more opportunity in person, my assumptions were so wrong.

Edited 2 hours ago by Lucasxp64