New Chapter in My Life: Habits and Disciplines

[Spiritual Warrior]

Interlude: I am Grateful post: December 6th, 2025

I'd like to take a moment to post about this beautiful moment that I'm having right now. I am at the airport heading to Washington DC for a dance competition. I am hanging out with a beautiful young woman that I will be competing with and with whom I've been practicing with for the past year; honing my skills, developing career capital, developing chemistry and a connection. 

Three years ago on this date, I was traveling back home for Christmas from a cross country road trip that I had just went on. At that time, I was lost, I had no direction, no girlfriend, and still hadn't had sex. 

Two years ago on this date, I had just gotten this dancing job, and I was working as a host at a restaurant. I had been "heart broken" three times because I liked 3 different girls, and it didn't work out with any of them. This was tough for me, but at the same time I was finally putting myself out there. 

One year ago on this date, I had just broken up with my girlfriend, we dated for 8 months. This was the first relationship that I had taken seriously and it is also the first time I had sex. I was finally able to get in touch with my sexual energy while with another human being and allow myself to be vulnerable with her. Ultimately, I ended things because I realized that I wanted to take this dancing job more seriously and I wanted to have sex with more people. 

Since then, I have become successful as a dance instructor with about 15 students, I am surviving off of income from just dancing, I've had sex with a second person, and I have started to make some MASSIVE goals for myself that I am very confident that I will actualize in my life.