jacknine119

I can't escape from isolation.

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After moving to another city, I lost all my past relationships. I don’t even have one friend to talk to now. On the other hand, I do approach girls and have plenty of small talks, but it doesn’t change anything — I still feel completely alone, and it really hurts. Maybe the mindset that I need someone is wrong, and I should learn to be okay on my own. What do you guys think?

 

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Are you financially capable of moving into a serviced apartment or built-to-rent style place? A lot of them offer social events for residents, it's a very easy way to make friends and reduce the feeling of isolation.

Moving into one of these places was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Like you I used to struggle with isolation, but now I have a really solid friend group living in the same building as me. It's amazing.

The downside is they're really expensive.

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5 hours ago, something_else said:

Are you financially capable of moving into a serviced apartment or built-to-rent style place? A lot of them offer social events for residents, it's a very easy way to make friends and reduce the feeling of isolation.

Moving into one of these places was one of the best decisions I've ever made. Like you I used to struggle with isolation, but now I have a really solid friend group living in the same building as me. It's amazing.

The downside is they're really expensive.

This sounds really lovely. 

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15 hours ago, jacknine119 said:

This is the greater truth: Maybe the mindset that I need someone is wrong, and I should learn to be okay on my own.

This doesn't matter: What do you guys think?

You got it already my friend :)

Edited by Ramasta9

I am but a reflection... a mirror... of you... of me... in a cosmic dance of separative... unity...

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