The Princess and the Frog

[Princess Arabia]

This is actually a dating and relationship journal. I threw the other one out because I didn't think I'd want to talk too much on this topic from a female perspective on a male dominated forum. I've decided to try again because I find myself wanting to say some things but without tainting my other journal which is mostly about reality and spirituality. Plus, I can. Some might even appreciate a female's perspective on this in this field and maybe learn a thing or two about how we think. I don't know, I'll just let it flow and see how it goes. 

I love the title I gave it. I think it's a but catchy. I'm feeling adventurous right now even though there's nothing adventurous in my dating life. 

Anyone can comment and jump in for some tea or coffee or some wine and cheese. Just don't overstay your welcome and leave after the date. Don't spend the night. I need a ring for that. Hehe.

Edited September 1 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

Men are from Mars. Women are from Disneyland. We want our Prince Frog to take us to Mars.

Silly me. I can see where this journal is going.

[Princess Arabia]

We are the prize period. Look at the stories. Men get congratulated just for meeting and hanging out with the prize. Men also don't care about personality to want to bang a chick. Tits and ass is enough. Nothing worth being a prize would want to stick their precious ting-a-ling- anywhere if it were precious. The difference is whether it's a hot prize or not. Then it's a homerun prize. Then unto the next prize. Like a yearly football match. 

[Schizophonia]

5 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

We are the prize period. Look at the stories. Men get congratulated just for meeting and hanging out with the prize. Men also don't care about personality to want to bang a chick. Tits and ass is enough. Nothing worth being a prize would want to stick their precious ting-a-ling- anywhere if it were precious. The difference is whether it's a hot prize or not. Then it's a homerun prize. Then unto the next prize. Like a yearly football match. 

If it was true, i would have a bodycount of >10 easily

[Princess Arabia]

2 hours ago, Schizophonia said:

If it was true, i would have a bodycount of >10 easily

Of course it's not true. I never claimed anything to be true. It's just talking. Plus, obviously it's never ALL in any scenario. Do I have to say SOME for every sentence. Go read the relationship section do you see any men there caring about a female's personality and how kind and compassionate and all that jazz she is. All I see is how hot they are, cold approaching strangers to hook up with, congratulating guys who got laid or met some females and asking where the hottest sections of a city is or if they should pa k up and move to go get laid.

[Princess Arabia]

This journal is not going to get me popular votes I can see that now. I have a little bit of a bone to pick from what I do and to get so much slack from men themselves for it and who have no shame in spreading their dicks around to who will take it. I have a little bit of an issue hearing men describe their loose ways while women are called whores and sluts for theirs. I have a little bit of an issue for when I see only fans girls get dogged out but guys can just proudly and openly share how they'd like to be with as many girls as they can and the more the merrier. I have a little bit of an issue when women are called out for being working girls when pick-up is just working men in reverse. I have a little bit of an issue when men can just be open with their "I'd like to bang that ass" comments and "the more the merrier remarks when asked about dating preference" when women get slack for trying to make a living doing this shit. Same shit men are doing.

I don't see any much talk about relationships here only a few but lots of bang 'em and hot girls and 'closing' like a real estate transaction but we get slack and whoring guys get told prostitutes are low-conscious people by men who go to strip clubs where prostitution is going on in the back. It's called the champagne room. I have a little bit of an issue, not much but a little bit, when I see how women are supposed to act VS men and how their whoring ways are praised and they feel entitled to hot women and have a problem when women are picky and want to choose men of value. I'm not ranting just speaking my fucked up truth. Not all men, obviously and not even most, just some. When I see them I just want to puke, though. Don't blame me. I've been traumatized by this but not really. Just disgusted to see how men are the first to complain about women but they don't care about women but only for hedonistic pleasures and they judge working girls for doing the same thing they're doing only worse because it's just for carnal pleasure. 

Edited September 2 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

This is why I think twice about starting this type of journal because I know some projection is going to leak out and some things said that's not so flattering. Maybe it's the exact thing I need to get this stuff out and for it to get some breathing room. It's not all that serious, though, but as a working girl it can take a toll over the years to see how many of the atrocities have been committed by men and how some men can be who are professionals and are outstanding citizens of society but a female will get slack just for being on an adult website or selling her pussy. No one asks about her personality, if she's a mean girl or not, is she cruel and is she abusing men and clients or stealing and robbing or whatever. You do this for a living....you are this and you are that. While the clients get a free pass. They are the poor victims and the girls are taking advantage of lonely, fat, ugly men. So far from the truth. If anything, it's the men taking advantage of women stuck in this work for financial reasons or whatever else reason other than if it's done willingly. They pounce from woman to woman and carry on with their sexual fantasies and escapades of getting laid by strange and new women while the women go home after work and are usually faithful to their families. 

[Schizophonia]

42 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

Of course it's not true. I never claimed anything to be true. It's just talking. Plus, obviously it's never ALL in any scenario. Do I have to say SOME for every sentence. Go read the relationship section do you see any men there caring about a female's personality and how kind and compassionate and all that jazz she is. All I see is how hot they are, cold approaching strangers to hook up with, congratulating guys who got laid or met some females and asking where the hottest sections of a city is or if they should pa k up and move to go get laid.

It’s what you want to see, I don’t see that.

All my friends say the same thing too, and their are attractive.

[Schizophonia]

27 minutes ago, Princess Arabia said:

 "I'd like to bang that ass"

It’s a kind of cope; when men are sexually frustrated and feel humiliated by it, they will say simian thing to seem bigger and protect oneself against humiliation (castration).

This sentence hasn’t a sexual vibe, it’s indeed hidden agression.

Edited September 2 by Schizophonia

[Princess Arabia]

When I say i've been traumatized I don't mean it in the normal sense of trauma. Imagine being labelled and put into a category simply because of what you do not for who you are. That can take a mental toll over the years. It's like you're ostracized while you sit back and watch "ordinary people" act like the real whores and tramps and be promiscuous and whore the town down just to get laid; by strangers, nonetheless. At least a girl gets to pay her bills from it but she's the tramp while "Mr. I'd Like To Tap That Ass" gets advice on how to get that done. That's the kind of trauma I'm talking about. Seeing the hypocrisy. Hearing the tales told of men who are whoring down the town so frivolously and spreading their dicks around to Mary and Sue for no other reason than to get laid, but a get paid woman is a tramp.

I realize it's because women are supposed to be the prize and not give their shit away so loosely, I get that, the signs are everywhere but it still takes a little bit of a toll to see the competitors for the prize be so freeing with their tools while judging and criticizing the prized pool. 

I'm the first one to tell what I do and couldn't give two shits what anyone says just to get that out the way and neutralize the situation fast. At first it will be a shock to the system then an expectance (expecting me to act like their idea of one), then a normalcy phase then a what do you do again phase. It won't even come up again as I'll be so normal and they'd actually be the one drugging out life away, sexing up the whole town and partying like an animal every week-end, while I'm watching  Rupert Spira waiting for my date who is a functional businessman alcoholic that works on computers for a very large cyber security firm but no one knows he sees escorts and has an only fans account and cheats on his wife and smokes weed because he doesn't fit the bill and works in a reputable company that's considered of a high caliber and only smart people work. That's where the trauma comes in. Seeing this shit played out for years and years while getting called out for what I do and not who I am as a person. It actually woke me up to realize it doesn't matter. 

[Schizophonia]

@Princess Arabia

You are pretty, (for a black woman in her forties?) fit, very intelligent, kind and a very good cook and all of this makes you someone who will be easy to get a very cool partner for, if you want one. When I will be rich I will take a plane to New Jersey and pay a service the double of the price with the restaurant and chocolates 😎

More seriously all of this is just old man’s conspiracy as Neville would say. You know what I mean.

[Princess Arabia]

13 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

It’s a kind of cope; when men are sexually frustrated and feel humiliated by it, they will say simian thing to seem bigger and protect oneself against humiliation (castration).

This sentence hasn’t a sexual vibe, it’s indeed hidden agression.

Explain away, explain away, what millions of men think but some won't say. No need explaining, guys think this all the time it's just it sounds funny when heard. You're seeming to think it's only with sexually frustrated. Lots of men getting pussy left and right will still act that way. The main reason I think is because they can and society has given men a free pass to be promiscuous without it having a negative impact on them socially. 

[Princess Arabia]

7 minutes ago, Schizophonia said:

@Princess Arabia

You are pretty, (for a black woman in her forties?) fit, very intelligent, kind and a very good cook and all of this makes you someone who will be easy to get a very cool partner for, if you want one. When I will be rich I will take a plane to New Jersey and pay a service the double of the price with the restaurant and chocolates 😎

More seriously all of this is just old man’s conspiracy as Neville would say. You know what I mean.

Haha, you're funny. I like that light tone and humor you made. It made me laugh. This is just me venting and changing up my vibe a bit. Nothing serious here. All in fun. Seriously. No pun intended. 

Edited September 2 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

Don't mind me when I'm venting, it's just a short phase that goes in and out. I don't take it seriously. I couldn't care less what I think about me and what bothers me. Who cares, only me.

[Princess Arabia]

I should get out of grown men's discussion where getting laid is a highly-prized pursuit. 

[Princess Arabia]

I shouldn't have a journal of this kind since I have a hang up about men just wanting sex and getting laid so much. Maybe precisely why i need to talk it out. It's my only gripe with men. Maybe as a working girl I should love it as it helps my work and i wouldn't have been in business this long if men weren't horny pigs. I know people are reading this thinking what they're thinking and saying wtf is her problem but Idgaf, it's a journal for speaking the mind and that's what I'm going to do. You all probably know by now I have no filter even though I'm trying my best lately to put one on. I haven't gotten into any fights lately on the forum I've just been like mostly saying OK to this and that and letting things be.

 When I first came on here I was very hot blooded because I used to get picked on. Still do, but not as much and i don't show too much emotions when do so it doesn't stick, plus the haters haven't been on for a while. Some just can't stand me just because of what I do while they're out looking for strange pussy to fuck and cold approaching hundreds of women just to get in their pants. The hypocrisy is astounding. Then calling working girls low-conscious. The defense is that men have high testosterones levels. Oh God, if I hear that one more time as a defense to whore down the planet, I'll puke. 

[Schizophonia]

20 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Explain away, explain away, what millions of men think but some won't say. No need explaining, guys think this all the time it's just it sounds funny when heard. You're seeming to think it's only with sexually frustrated. Lots of men getting pussy left and right will still act that way.

It means nothing.

You can be rich and vibrate lack and vice versa.

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The main reason I think is because they can and society has given men a free pass to be promiscuous without it having a negative impact on them socially. 

Yes, but I'm interested in the unconscious causes of this.
Sensuality and aggression are opposed, so when a man says something mean/dehumanizing, it's lowkey about "honor", not sex.

just like fat women who act aggressively, it's basically a way of protecting themselves.
Btw generally with aggression toward thin women mirrors (who don't protect themselves, sometimes masochistic).

20 hours ago, Princess Arabia said:

Haha, you're funny. I like that light tone and humor you made. It made me laugh. This is just me venting and changing up my vibe a bit. Nothing serious here. All in fun. Seriously. No pun intended. 

Eheh

Edited September 3 by Schizophonia

[Princess Arabia]

Beautiful.

[Princess Arabia]

Women don't have lots of options, men do. This is another "nothing is as it seems" thing in life. It may seem like we have way more options but only to mostly other men. Women realize that lots of men will approach but very few she'd be interested in. Most men don't realize this especially the younger ones. Older men will understand this better because they know how men can be and that women have to be more picky than them when it comes to certain things especially in the safety arena. 

All younger men see is pretty woman, lots of men flocking therefore tons of options. NO, NO, NO. I envy men in this arena. They have so many options of beautiful women. Beautiful women are everywhere. That's all it takes for them initially. Our option is to vet out the assholes, the creeps, the dangers, the dusties, the losers, the predators...i mean the list goes on. Men initially want looks and physical attraction. Women too, to an extent, but it's not that important to women as it is for men. Sometimes for us, all it takes is that he's fairly financially independent, respectful, and not a killer or a rapist for us to even consider a first date which is hard to determine just by looks alone so we take a lot of chances just saying yes to a first date alone. 

A man goes out, a woman goes out. Both are attractive. No one approaches the man, a few men approaches the female. The man sees 20 females that day that he wouldn't mind going out with or having sex with. That day the female saw no guy or maybe one or two she would even consider going out with and none she would initially want to have sex with without getting to know him first. Even though she was cat-called, gawked at, approached and looked at by tons of guys. Where are her options there. The guy might not have scored that day but his options were way more to even want to try for a score. She just didn't see that many to even consider because she just wasn't interested. Keep in mind both weren't initially looking but for the male his eyes wandered because that's just what men do sometimes. 

The word "options" is what's being discussed here. Not who gets approached more. He sees more like he likes she sees less of what she likes. The reason she sees less is mainly due to women being more emotional and for men more visual. A man just walking by has not stirred up any emotions yet she knows nothing about him that she can relate to and hasn't felt anything just yet. For him, fantasy land took over and he's dreaming about what those legs look like inside those jeans and those nipples are they suckable or her hair how he loves the look. For him, it's easy; for her, let's just say it's "let's put on the investigator glasses. Does she feel safe, is he lying about not having a gf, does he really like her for her, does he make her laugh, etcetc, while for him the job is already done. Took 5mins for him. I see, I like, I want.

Nightlife is a bit different where alcohol and drugs get involved and people's inhibitions are at play. Women get a bit more loose in these environments and are not as quick to look for safety concerns overall; maybe just for the night concerns as in getting home safe or is he a rapist or a killer kind of concern which is a bit extreme if it's under normal circumstances. Usually she's not thinking these things if she met him under certain circumstances like friends, he's a regular, her judgment, and so on. 

A woman may see one man she would fuck that night and a man see 10. Who has more options there. Options is who has more to work with not who has more admirers.

 

Edited Monday at 05:50 PM by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

How to make a female cum. Play with her clit. Thank me later.