gev

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  1. You lost me when you referenced both Hitler and Trump in the same sentence.
  2. I heard what I needed to hear. Like everything else in life, I'll get over it. I always do.
  3. I often travel to Europe. 2.5 years ago I began online dating with a girl from Europe that evolved to private email 4 x week. We have also met and had the best time than I can remember. I was falling for her. She speaks English, a physician, bright personality sociable laughs easily. At the beginning I sent gifts, & flowers that she loved. During the 2 years she sometimes would go on business trips & be out of contact. She explained she avoided everyone during her work related trips. She did not want to reveal where she lived when I offered to mail her portrait I made of her. After last July meeting we agreed to meet again. After meeting she refused flowers because she was too busy we continued warm as before - writing 4 x a week. We still talked about meeting but only when she knew would not be traveling. She still refused gifts saying that she did not want deliveries but only if I give them personally. Yet we could not agree on a time for visit. She never asks for gifts/ money. Towards holidays she became even warmer than ever - writing every day. During holidays she changed. Cool not writing often, being too busy, personal issues to write. Yet she was on dating site almost every day. I asked what happened to her attitude towards me & if she wanted to end things. She was surprised by my question and said no. I let it go until February when I asked what she thought about our 2 years and 3 months where it was going. No reply for a week. Earlier I had learned her address because she was so mysterious. I wanted to know who I was falling for or married or if I will be hurt. Why continue to write me if not interested? After a week of no reply to my question of our 2 years I wrote a nice goodbye letter. I wanted more than a penpal but wife & so I wished her well. No reply. Feeling resentful I used her address to return a cup she gave me last July because she would always refuse my gifts. Then I realized I made a horrible mistake. I wrote heartfelt letter how I felt our times together how much I missed her apologizing for my mistakes & finding her address w/o her permission & sending back the cup. I offered travel to meet anytime. I know she received and read the letter through a receipt. I sent greetings for Int. Women’s Day. No replies. I am not entirely to blame but I did cross a line by getting her address and sending the gift back to her. I don’t know if she is angry or hurt or both. She gave romantic signals during our meeting but I did not act on it. I am going to send the portrait I made of her since there is not going to be another meeting and she is remaining silent. I think I missed my chance. One last letter? It seems there is nothing more I can do or say without frightening or disgusting her or whatever.