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Okay, this is the important thing. Yeah, but don't get him into your therapist ahaha

I understand, but why did you get immediately into a new relationship without even taking the time for healing? I think your current boyfriend deserves a woman who minds about him and not about her ex.

Ahahaha Is that saying (sausage fest) so widespread?

Of course, it may be a tangible problem ? Especially in the beginning, you can be so "blinded" by him/her that you cannot see any dysfunctions. Nice! Then stop to keep bringing your exes's issues and start focusing on your current "good" boyfriend.

Then go for that type, as simple as it is ? Is your current boyfriend holding those qualities?

Is the girl required to be fertile? We are waiting for some bald babies here! Joke aside, I'm happy to know that Leo desire to have a woman in his life.

@7thLetter You drop a bomb here by asking such a thing! ? However, I think yes I'll take it.

@Preety_India 1) His unfairness is not your fault. You are not responsible for his actions. 2) You are always deserving of love no matter what he did to you. You will always have an intrinsic value no matter what.

Yes, me too my friend ?

If by being picky you mean being selective and having some standards, then that's totally reasonable

As long as you are on your purpose, respect and love yourself, then you don't need to listen that stuff.

That's fine, in this way the OP can have different perspectives. Then he will probably recognize what fits his situation better.

Here you are destroying my comment above ahaha I think @Nate0068 is already conscious of the risk of a boring relationship and right because of this "threaten" he is overcompensating. I think the problem could be the opposite: trying too hard and not being comfortable with silence.

@Nate0068 I had this problem too. As Roy suggested, the fear of being boring, so then the fear of losing her is what actually keeps us down. We put our value on our ability to maintain a relationship, we lose integrity and we can't enjoy it anymore. It's a sort of self-fulfilling prophecy. Now that I threw out of the window those thoughts, I've been building a new relationship that seems to work really well (at least currently ahaha).

@MrBON Bro, you are young, you will find someone else. I guarantee. Side note: chose a girl who chose you. Soulmates exist only when it's mutual.

What do you mean by saying that females are born enlightened? ?

How could such a child has been elected 4 years ago in the first place? Reading those words, from a european perspective, it's completely absurd. I'm shocked!

So, you guys are basically claiming that "women can't make you happy" but at the same time you believe that "women can make you suffer". We have two alternatives here: 1- Women can't make you happy and they can't make you suffer as well 2- Women can actually make you happy as much as they can make you suffer. Choose.

@aurum Thank you dude! As you guessed, supplicating is not my problem. Rather is the contrary, for example, about stuff like blowjob (sounds really bad on here, I'm sorry ???) I never ask or force things. When it happens, it is always on her initiative, otherwise I'm fine anyway.

More than you think

@Thestarguitarist14 I don't think you got the truth. I respect your point of view anyway. It would be interesting to know your background and what led you toward this resistance.

Relationships are not buses. If you got hurt by them I'm sorry. I got hurt by girls and friends too, but I got amazing benefits and rewards from them as well. It's part of the process. If you don't want to engage in any kind of relationship it's completely fine, but please, let other people make their own decisions.

I mean, hearing that 99.99% of relationships are toxic can mislead guys who are willing to have one. Maybe they are pushed to quit because of that number, while I firmly believe they should try to experience a relationship on their own. So then they will draw their own conclusions.

Man, maybe you are the one who is attracting those toxic relationships if you truly believe that percentage. I strongly disagree with that and I honestly think you are not helping anyone by giving these random numbers.

@Dlavjr I had the same problem a short time ago. I knew it was not about low testosterone or about her level of attractiveness, but just performance anxiety. Writing down some thoughts has helped me solve the problem. Just sit alone and ask yourself some questions like: Why do I put so much importance on getting an erection? Is sex all about penetration? Why do I feel less of a man if it happens? Why don't I allow myself to have some vulnerabilities like everyone else? Why do I fear taking my time?