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Yes, I don't necessarily mean a lasting relationship, but I think that having experienced love (at least once in your life) can raise your awareness. An experience is more valuable than a non-experience, I guess. Wow, really good insight, thank you My mind becomes like a floating feather in the sky

I have had this question since my grandfather died when I was young. I was wondering "what if my grandfather is still thinking, but he just can't share his though anymore"

Is it possible to be aware inside a dream? Is it possible to realise that you are dreaming when you are actually dreaming?

Ahaha Are you talking about the brain?

Has it happened to anyone else?

I wrote down some dream time ago, then I stopped because of: - laziness - they seem to lead nowhere - fear of losing touch with reality and becoming mad (when I think back to those dream, they seem so fucking real. Sometimes I can hardly distinguish the dreaming memory from the real memory)

Congrats! I'm in a LDR too, but we are much farther than you two, anyway. We don't like texting so we keep it short. Just something like "good morning" or "I'm going to the gym". Then if we get enough time, we have a video call after dinner. If not, nothing. You just can't chat every time. In a LDR you have a lot of time for self development. Enjoy that and give her space to do the same. Good luck ?

@Pelin your words relieve me @non_nothing For sure. I think neediness is the main cause of breakups.

As time passes and things get serious, questions grow inside me. I’m 20, she's 17, we casually met for the first time about 4 months ago, during the summer. It was love at first sight: on the first date we kissed and on the following date we gradually got into sex (even if we were virgins). We hadn’t had much experience before that moment. In fact, if I think back, I’m still impressed at how fast we got into sex (and all my friends are still impressed too). Then the summer ended and we had to face our biggest problem: I live in the north of Italy and she lives in the south. Fortunately, this problem hasn’t affected our relationship. We are still happily committed. Until now she came to me twice both in October and in November. I’m flying to her in December. We have already planned out when we can see. It’s about 5 days per each month plus the whole summer. Anyway, in the future, she’ll choose a university close to me because everyone knows there are better possibilities here in the north (and her parents agree with that). Why don’t you look for a closer girlfriend? Because I love her and she loves me. Because our love is authentic, not needy. Because we trust each other and we communicate. Because we have a strong intimacy and an amazing sex. Moreover, I consider myself a high-quality man who deserves a high-quality woman. She is definitely one. She eats healthy and goes to the gym. She is so nice and sweet. She is feminine and playful. I’m the cake and she is my cherry.

@Equanimitize @YaNanNallari @Elisabeth thank you so much I told my story and came up with those questions just to have feedback from the outside. We are fine right now, maybe too fine. This is why I'm asking. Maybe there is something I'm missing here. Things are going on naturally. Neither of us is suffering the distance so much. Rather, considering our distance and our age, we are grateful we can see so often. I live alone, and I'm grateful that her parents let her stay with me when she comes. Yes, we have planned out when we could meet, but we haven't booked all the flight tickets yet, obviously. We book them just a couple of week before departure. Of course, I miss her, but I won't define it painful. And surely this relationship is bringing me more pleasure than suffering. Yeah, I'm conscious of that. This is why I'm asking for feedback ultimately.

Yeah man, that's why I'm always late

Ahahah yess And then she begs you to be fucked ???

@aurum I really like your comment above. I know it could sound harsh to some ladies, but it really grasps the teasing mentality. Once, while I was having sex, I even stopped to pick up the phone! Sooo funny! She was astonished! Just a few seconds, by the way.

To drive her crazy

I don't know Yoni exactly, but it seem more spiritual and focused on the whole body

Ok, I'll tell her that for me it's fine to reverse. I like both to dominate and to submit. (She already knows all my fetishes)

She proposed it to me just once, instead, she asks me to use my belt to tie her hands almost every time. I think she is really feminine, this is why the proposal to reverse the role sounded a little weird to me

Yes, we have already done that and I could say it was one of the best experiences we've ever had

Thank you! I have done this and she squirted for the first time!

She really likes submitting to me, but once she proposed me to reverse the role, I don't know why. I was very triggered but I said no because of the fear to lose my masculinity in front of her. Should I let this fear go away?

Soo nice Yeah, definitely, I would die this way ahaha

@MM1988 It seems you have what it takes to get a girlfriend. Do you workout your body? Do you have strange habits or something? Addictions?

Here are some points I figured out through my own experience: - Find the right partner: someone who doesn't put pressure on you. - Don't set too many expectations: in the beginning, you need patience. There could be some understandable anxiety, you couldn't get it up, you couldn't find the hole, you could ejaculate too soon...etc - Time and practice will heal those problems. - Once you got more experienced, then focus on having amazing sex: give her your gift, tease her, be dominant, be intimate, play the dirty talk game, learn her sexual fantasies… - Good luck

@Leo Gura if you came to Italy, I would offer you a pizza

When I'm talking with someone and we are sharing our personal stuff, I tend to be openminded and understanding. I ask them questions, I like to figure out the difference between our approaches to life. I never judge them, at least on the outside, but on the inside I still hear a little voice saying “oh that’s shit, he should do like me…” I hear this inner voice especially when we stumble upon some topics I really care about such as health, nutrition and relationship.