
NoSelfSelf
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So your looks will determin if a girl wants you or not?
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NoSelfSelf replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Razard86 I think road to compassiom starts with being grateful to outside things and more importantly grateful for things you have inside yourself grateful for yourself then you can have compassion more because you start loving yourself then compassion can start i think being grateful is underrated and it could kill the shadow and lack of compassion ? -
NoSelfSelf replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
@Razard86 we have this thing called contracts that create how we feel and they are usually messed up like contract saying i hate rain and i dont have anything to do when its raining its making me depressed...so every time rain comes you will be depressed automatically and blame weather for your internal problems its like in everything and just in reaction mode and not taking proactive contract that serves you.. Edit:just different perspective of what you said -
NoSelfSelf replied to Holykael's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
No its not its your own perception of the world that keeps you in prison aka hell realm... -
@HereNow There is always hope thats the thing but in process you are losing your self esteem your manhood by trying to get someone thats not interested in you romanticaly and you are in weak position where you will try to make it work doing some silly stuff...other thing is time you can focus on someone that wants you for real and you can move her better and more efficient on your terms not hers...
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@HereNow So its period of 2 months...situation is that you created an image in her mind of a friendly guy that she likes to talk to and now you jumped to more intimate level is a shock to her and dishonesty in her mind so its tough now to move things further than being a friend... Shes fighting that but shes losing.. so if you ask me i would say hey friend thing is not for me so if you wanna have crazy sexual experiences then contact me something in those lines but you do what you wanna do but in the end its a waste of time if you wanna have sex...
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How long did it pass before you made it clear you want something more? And what did you do with her before that?
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By realizing nothing that you do cant change the past, you cant go back and change it,when you get this there will be no point in cringing...
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NoSelfSelf replied to Questioner's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Beat me for a split second ? @Leo Gura -
@mr_engineer There is no competition dude ? theres is only one of your kind.. I just gave you an example humor is one thing it could be anything how you gonna move her,how you gonna make her think, how you gonna make her blush ,how you gonna turn her on, how you gonna make her feel passionate ,you create based upon what makes you passionate excited then you throw it creating your own game and how you gonna move... Theres infinite layers of your own creation that you create and then use it based upon situation and what you gonna do to her how you gonna show her who you are etc. Thats Game no manipulation needed! Wheres competition when you create an experience an evening full of your own mind fun where will she find that?
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@mr_engineer Who told you you need to manipulate? Find things in you that are authentic for example you wanna make her laugh then see what type of humor you like then pick a line you gonna say and throw it when its a good timing wheres manipulation in this? Manipulation is when you pedestalize women and try be something you are not to get laid ..
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@mr_engineer Player doesnt look for love anymore he looks to get most out of relationship potential but he usually brings more value than woman so hes in position to pick and choose woman and then woman start to buy him stuff bringing more and more value just to keep his attention.. True nice guys turning player will usually be concious and because of momentum become way better than naturals..
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@mr_engineer Player will always win nice guy cant do nothing about it but being in position to please plead and care for her with no much effect and seeling his own self for her ?..
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@mr_engineer Yeah there are alot of them that wanna become... good point that could be only love relationship that i could support because its real love not human love?
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@mr_engineer Thats Gods love i dont think anyone thinks about that when they think about love... At that point why would you need one person to love you love them all even the walls and books on your shelfs in same way as you would love a person...petty relationship dies at that point ? your options are very limited i dont think there are many enlightened girls around...
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@mr_engineer Can you explain me what love is other than fullfilling someones materialistic or survival needs that match yours?
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@Razard86 Choosing signals ??
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@mr_engineer Hook her on you then there will be no problem but to hook her on you you need to deepen yourself but nobody is ready for that ?♂️ working on yourself pff pls ? wanna hook on everything but you weird how that works..
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@Jodistrict You are onto something ????
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But keep in mind gaining as much experience is key to master the skill so if you have alternative do that i just dont like guys that have phantasy that one day girl will come sky will open and everything will be ?
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This gives me psychopatic vibes
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What are you even saying ?Reframe the queastion
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NoSelfSelf replied to Questioner's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If im imaginary and you tell me to stop imagining you is funny, because you ask too much of an imaginary person to do i mean in term of logic is pointless ? -
Its all part of it and worrying about anything thats not your intent will make you lose at the game...