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@Tyler Robinson hows external things gonna help him This is deeper problem than communication or sharin ? His whole mind is in hell ive been there and im still somewhat in there but its a 360 degree change from all about outside to all about inside me!

Because you dont trust yourself when you dont trust yourself you depend on externals(codependent mind),like now you want our advice that you will depend on because you abandon yourself for advice ,so no matter how many experiences you have you will feel not good enough because confidence comes from trust in yourself and trust in yourself comes from independent thinking that you hold as absolute and sacrade to yourself... You have all this rules and theory that you depend on to succede with girls and they are not coming from you thats what you heard and now acting out.. Now you are depending from externals for validation self worth thats why you cant be yourself Basically lack of self belief(trust in you) is why you have this problem...

No its an excuse in disguise Being good with girls is being around them and build skill towards it... No matter how good your life is wont substitute for weak game...

@Molaric whats the point of your thread queastion then ?

By socializing with people who have substance. Average people are on the surface and you cant expect much from them(so just see them for what they are and see its not compatible) but sometimes you get surprised.. If you can have fun with yourself with those people then you are on the great path...

Who cares?

@Atb210201 No problem my phylosophy is better to lose her than myself so i wouldnt compromise that much...

@Federico del pueblo Understood ?

@Federico del pueblo how can you like her and she likes you from few minutes of interaction? How do you know whats happening in her life and why she said fuck off? What if she needs to go somewhere and you in her way? See my point?

@Atb210201 Im trying to save your relationship that is sinking faster than you think...you are your worst enemy keep being "concious" and she will keep disrespecting 2+2 thing...

@Atb210201 thats where you are messing up! you are not concious of relationship dynamic, you cant ever put more importance on her than on yourself ,thats what we call a simp and someone whos weak and pander for a woman and thats why she is acting like that! Its all on you, what is needed to be done to make things work(your job)(that you put in her hands not knowin) looking for anything outside yourself(your girlfriend) will make you lose yourself in her and now shes putting you in position to limit you and put expectations on you instead you putting expectations on her and leading the situation... shes also in your mind right now there is no room for you...thats all i can say from what you wrote...

@Federico del pueblo what is a rejection? Im not being funny

We had many posts like this, i think it all comes from lack of structure, so she knows she can do whatever and there is no repercussion to her actions.She can feel that there is no rock no structure in you,so shes becaming more and more aggitated and losing respect. And i dont know what else are you doing...

I can direct you where to go in Pm Game starts and ends in your mind tho Love the quote "getting girls has nothing to do with getting girls" ?

My queastion is why would you look for love? Second you say you love yourself but how can you love yourself when you are making yourself miserable? She loves the cold ones because they love themselves more than they love her... My opinion you should look for influence and positive impact not love

No in my opinion you need a real man in your life to bring best out of you to become masculine its no easy thing and it wont happen just by emulating alfas its a whole system fix Im saying focus on being a better woman

Keep saying her no...

@Delmo So if there is a heavy rain outside window is open and you are standing there thinking, should i leave it open or should i close it It could make a mess but ill see if it does ?

By conecting with yourself first, you cant connect with someone if you dont have a sense of self(knowing yourself on a deeper level) you can only trauma bond which is not healthy.. When you know yourself then you can find things in you that are similar in others, giving your own unique perspective and personality... Social anxiety is a mask that blocks all of that and notice you are not social anxiety its what you do so connect with who you are(easier said than done)... Basically owning and being one with yourself solves this problem...

@mr_engineer ok you are right its pointless to talk about this you have your own racionalozations and keep having them women will treat you like food so you will start blame them and you will take another red pill ?

@Razard86 yeah we are all in this together but sometimes someone shakes you out of your bubble... @mr_engineer women this women that thats the problem again you are making it about the women and it has nothing to do with women(you are not even in the game thinking its about women but this is hard to explain in one thread)... You know how you make yourself happy and create mind world for yourself that she follows you are not trying to make her happy ? i told you that and you continue to complain because mind is fing you over... Edit:bad boys doesnt give a fuck about women how come they love them so much think about that?

Talked in here

What is shameful in that? You worship women thats why you cant show it because what will she think? what i need to do to make her like me type of bs that makes you walk on eggshells...

There are some gels you put on before sex that makes you last longer havent tried but its worth a try ?‍♂️

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