NoSelfSelf

😂 i should have just post the video,reminded me i havent watched it yet..

You could be interperting leos work wrong thats why i asked for your clarification.You are so selfless that you dont realize every person views everything differently even the principles of the facts.

You said that you heared somewhere that that after age 30 any skill you take you will basically suck at(im paraphrasing).It strike you so seriously that you made a thread about it.That is exactly why you dont have authority because you would recognize you are not any 30 y old and someones article cant define you.You basically think im stupid.Also got emotional from it if you stand on who you are you wont be affected by me.

Im talking to you not Leo 😂

You are lying

What's an extreme selfishness? Like loving myself so much my head explodes? I dont know what balancing act of reality you mean?

I dont get how can there be greater good without selfishness. How can one transform without selfishness,lead,be effective. I guess selfishness here means gaining while taking from someone else.

If based on our answers and what you read is the reasoning behind making a decision-that right there is the reason why your life wont be amazing even if you made the right choice because you will always be a puppet and not the leader of you.

I have an aunt that's 70years old and she almost fell for it,she couldnt even comprehend how someone can fake their profile.(some)Women that age would rather give all their belonging just so they can be with someone, its crazy.Those scammers use tactics to get them attached over selling dream of living with them.They are always divorced,have alot of money and with one child looking to swap countries promising to buy a house near them.Same story every time lol.

I missed this book, so its about more than just enlightment talk?

Your major sticking point is that you dont believe in yourself because you dont have identity to believe in.So mind is forced into reaction mode.

Usually report or sent me pm 🙏

@Schizophonia Because im not allseeing eye 👀 need your support.

Point is to not understand women, its to understand yourself then find a woman who will love your way of emotional support.

That's the big difference between man and a woman,women is everchanging while man is always firm in who he is. You are looking to put women in a firm structure and they will never stay there, only if you are firm in yours,but that cant happen if you look to understand women but yourself and be firm in who you are. Instead of looking to why she needs emotional support, be emotional support.

Huge problem i see on the forum is lack of specific self awarness.You are just describing your interpretation of what you are experiencing,without knowing what actually you finding difficult and what situation.Then you will get as vague answer.

It all boils down to 1 self deception in dating,if one knows he is not the guy to conquer a woman he will use cheap manipulative tactics,when you are the guy then you dont need to use anything(of decieving or manipulating her mind) ,since every move one makes speaks volumes who he is and she decides if she wants to chase it.In this case you dont wait to replay 5 hours to a text ignoring her, but use every opportnuity to conquer her.Ofcourse if you are really busy , but one is never busy to reply to a text or short phone call positioning yourself to think about you.

She just said it and you ignored it now chasing begins 😏

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Keep believing that bs ,the moment she realizes you are not actually attractive, because you follow hollow advice that promote faking who you are.Women chase men not boys who play games.

I stopped at first point:ignore her.That's playing games and looking to get her, its already coming of the place of lesser value pretending to be "high value",she already has an upper hand, this dating coaches 🤦.

Thinkers dont think that their thinking(now that's a sentence) should be transfered into action,if you think about abstractions/world/people you miss on the most important part.When you think about world you are reacting to it,but if you think about yourself it automatically put you in action so one avoids it.Books/videos are only there to guide you for better action.But ofcourse understanding is really important and part of action but its addicting to just keep understanding without thinking how do i apply it. So your fail is not studying but in the thinking/action transfer not thinking about how you gonna do things but just learning others ways.

Show me where did i make a queastion

I dont own gun, my only way of self defense is that i trained martial arts, if someone pulls out a gun im f#ed...