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Its not even the standards its lack of men,men are not men ,so her standards must be high to compensate for why she should be with an average feminine guy. All her high standards are not for men with game its for the crowd.

I see so much beauty in this.This whole dating thing is actually perfectly made.It exposes you on all levels.The ones who cheat's the game,the ones who lie to themselves,the one who think they know what's going on, the game will just reject you(you reject yourself actually).Game rejects you by woman saying few "harsh" things,telling you how it is and that alone pokes you in your bones. It exposes you by fear you feel when you see her,exposes you when you think shes beautiful and perfect,exposes you by her moving you with what shes doing. Its all just showing you on what level of understanding and embodiment you are at. If you are thirsty for sex and now she uses it as a weapon,its just perfect because sex shouldnt impact you to chase it. If she says i want a guy who earns 1 billion dollar a year and you react to it,you just exposed your level of game. If you are not excited and looking at becoming tougher rather than choosing to be less ,then that alone exposes you to the game and game will reject you the moment you are in front of a woman.If rejection even exists you reject yourself long before you are in front of her !

Yeah he is embodiment of the mentality im talking about.He just doesnt care and do whats needed for him.

To conclude with a quote i heared today:if there are 1000 unique men in the room, there will always be the one so unique, its like he can stand on the top of the needle from the rest,be that one.

Should/shouldn't is all on the individual im expressing my prefrence.I want to be so sure of myself because my aim is to be most effective as possible.I value my inner growth over materialistic gain and worlds/humans connections/ways.Ofcourse my aim is materialistic and all inbetween, but its not about it,its about me being completely independent psychologically.So the more outside influences i have its just shows me where im lacking in my own influence over me. Its neutral because you dont compare it to nobody, so there are no emotional reactions or problems, its just i see this is not effective lets remove it because its not serving me to where i want to go/want to be for me.

Yeah and if its a mix then its no good either (when i say good im coming from paradigm of my idea of best life). So ultimately when one has foundation there are no good/bad its just is,it makes who i am and the bad is only bad if its stops me from something,then one must get rid of it.

Well its not 100% accurate nothing is but 9/10 the way someone speaks exposes their mindset and based on that mindset i can see where they are mentally, where they are mentally that's how their decisions gonna be and that's the life they live. So from their perceptions,how one forms the queastions,sometimes the information they valauntereed exposes it.

Im saying that his decisions and actions are based on the outside influences.Same way they didnt believe 1 mile could be ran in certen time.So ultimately he is making decisions, but based on wrong interpretations.Its not coming from understanding of himself but his interpretations of the world and authorities. Then based on that i can see he actually is not authority over his life, because his decision are actually not his decisions based on knowledge of self but knowledge of the interpretations. He is not leader of himself ,he leads himself based on reactions which can give an illusion of leadership, one actually think he lives in his world but he lives based on world imposed on them.

Exactly, negative self image is created by not being sure of oneself,so the more self image takes a hit and one is not sure of itself(have strong foundation like i said to lady in a thread) the outside impact will be stronger, self image gets a hit because its not matching the expectations the more the hit is personal the higher degree of depression. Like if i dont find being asocial as my self image a problem,no matter how much i get a hit i wont get depressed(or affected in any way) ill get depressed if im not sure of myself(some aspect of my ego is fragile) and outside things keep hitting it/ruining my self image.Self image makes my self worth go down the more bad i feel about myself.

Funny thing today i figured out reason i was depressed.It goes deep but the cause of it so i dont write an essay if basically not being sure of oneself.Depression is being unsure of yourself on most aspects of life.

Well you need to be surrounded by positive outside influences.Because everything outside of you is shaping your thinking, then your thinking shapes your emotions and based on those emotions you interpit that's who i am and what situation is. At the core is ego,outside influences formes thinking that is poking the ego and what "holes" in the ego are poked that's what you feel based on how those thought makes you think about yourself(ego). As a man im working from inside out,you as a woman work from outside in. If you wish to become more masculine, then its backwards you form thinking about yourself that creates how you feel about yourself and based on that you come in situations.Man doesnt look at the past,people,surroundings to tell them how to feel about themselves because they create their own fundation.But its a process and i dont think woman can come there but i could be wrong.

😂 i should have just post the video,reminded me i havent watched it yet..

You could be interperting leos work wrong thats why i asked for your clarification.You are so selfless that you dont realize every person views everything differently even the principles of the facts.

You said that you heared somewhere that that after age 30 any skill you take you will basically suck at(im paraphrasing).It strike you so seriously that you made a thread about it.That is exactly why you dont have authority because you would recognize you are not any 30 y old and someones article cant define you.You basically think im stupid.Also got emotional from it if you stand on who you are you wont be affected by me.

Im talking to you not Leo 😂

You are lying

What's an extreme selfishness? Like loving myself so much my head explodes? I dont know what balancing act of reality you mean?

I dont get how can there be greater good without selfishness. How can one transform without selfishness,lead,be effective. I guess selfishness here means gaining while taking from someone else.

If based on our answers and what you read is the reasoning behind making a decision-that right there is the reason why your life wont be amazing even if you made the right choice because you will always be a puppet and not the leader of you.

I have an aunt that's 70years old and she almost fell for it,she couldnt even comprehend how someone can fake their profile.(some)Women that age would rather give all their belonging just so they can be with someone, its crazy.Those scammers use tactics to get them attached over selling dream of living with them.They are always divorced,have alot of money and with one child looking to swap countries promising to buy a house near them.Same story every time lol.

I missed this book, so its about more than just enlightment talk?

Your major sticking point is that you dont believe in yourself because you dont have identity to believe in.So mind is forced into reaction mode.

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