NoSelfSelf

Are you refering to 5 pillars of self esteem book practices?

Because you dont really want it, if you want something you are doing it without thinking ,now find why(this is also some kind of procrastination) you want it... Mind has a part thats gonna tell you negative things ,if you listen to that lower part and not what you want he will win every time..

@KH2 in your example what im saying is: great hunter is not desperate to get the prey, because he put his hunting skills and himself on a pedestal and not a prey, so he can now hunt it easily where other hunters cant get the prey because they are really eager to get it and never take time to put himslef and skill on a pedestal,but too focused and thirsting over a prey to see nothing else.. Game is not for everyone not everyone can win...

@KH2 Well average mind is wired to be in social matrix narcissist are crazy for seeking others likes we are not here to be average tho... Game doesnt mean getting laid with other girls(its a byproduct) because game is you when you stop seeking other likes you will see that everything in life is about you,what you gonna say is about you, what you gonna do is about you...its like you are playing world of warcraft but you are the creator and player at the same time(never played that game ?).. Well you need it because you are not student of the game you havent started the process and you probably cant because you are stuck in your current level of ways... When you get game(i mean when it comes from you tough to explain) you dont need others you want them, because you are creator of everything in your mind but now everyone else is creating that world... Now you are in state what i need to do for women to get them how can i sacrefice what i am for some play... Nah you create your ways that she must sleep with you because she will be crazy not to because your world gives her everything that she needs because you created it for yourself not just copying others and not really working on yourself building yourself(you cant really build yourself when looking at outside world being in social.matrix)) ... If you cant get this good luck she will be in power position and run game on you... You can bypass all this by talking action and get laid but you will still be a pawn not a king because you will resort to manipulation or depending or authority all the time if master doesnt teach you how to think for yourself hes not real one...

@KH2 because game is on personal level not on a surface like its all looks money and status ..you want to impress others and being liked by others thats what blocks game...but you dont wanna learn go learn from master what im saying here is what i learned from a master and its only 1% basic stuff...

@KH2 then dont talk to me simple as that

@KH2 that's how your mind f## you over stay in loser mentality

@StarStruck guy with game doesnt see her as 10/10 hes 10/10 in his mind she doesnt matter because game is not about women its about him. You mentioned chess as analogy guy with game sees the whole board as him(his moves his everything) and pieces and opponent are second you see opponent and pieces first and board doesnt matter to you... What makes her 10/10 can she spawn money from thin air?

@StarStruck Who doesnt make mistakes ? Fearing making a mistake because you dont think you can have many women so that one woman is all be all for you as they call scarecity mindset...

@KH2 For you not because you have no trust in yourself and its not about being entertaining its about not talking at her but talking to her...

Again you typed something boring in text, expecting things from her and now you are hurt because how could she have an option to say no to you ? Its all because you dont have game...

This is very odd first you asking for a friend but actually is you and if you have social anxiety no night or day matters it sucks both even nightgame sucks more there is no shelter... And you putting day or night as the problem not you....

They all do this because they are insecure..

You cant have good relationship if you are not selfish for yourself, then you treat them how you treat yourself from your own selfishness for yourself... Not being selfish is being a nice guy that doesnt work,because you look to make someone happy first...

That bug started weeks ago i thought you and others caught up to that...i didnt have that problem yet..

@Tahuti that's like saying big and strong=easy goal in football

If you dont have meaning then your lifes meaning is to find meaning

Sensitivity is one thing but the way you put the title "it makes you feel" thats feminine and you can change that...

@Majed No,what im saying is havin woman in mind is why you cant have game because you are looking how to get them instead focusing on you.. When you talk to girl you are imagining what to say then you say it,when you plan where to move you are planing where to move based upon what you imagining it to be there is no women in game its you... If you have woman in mind you are pedestalizing her to see what she would like, approaching her based on what you think she would like to hear etc. In the process puting yourself second aka beneath her...

@Majed Yes you are because you are looking at being good with women aka having sex with them,when you do that they are in your head all the time and thats pedestalization right there...there shouldnt even be women in your head but what do i know

You are putting women above yourself, thats why they are natural they dont do that...

@michaelcycle00 how can world posibally accept something they dont understand? They will start to judge you, give you names as weird etc to try to fit you in their box like they got put in the box in some day of their lifes when they acted like themselves... If you care about that then they will put you in a box as they did and now you suffer and cant accept yourself until they accept you.(they must challenge you until they see they cant change you) If you dont care then they will start to accept you and be forced to be in your box.... You surely have had an experience where you didnt like how somebody acts or looks, but more he expressed that unapologetic side of him you started to accept him and even like him!

You must watch Wednesday very meta

You cant accept who you are fully as long as you care about outside world more than yourself.Lets be honest you are slave of the outside world as much as the other guy...its just empty phrases i accept this and that...

@StarStruck Great anolgy wrong thread..