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@Jannes Dont expect anything from her btw, you rejected her moves whats the issue here,whats this real talk with someone you dont know?

You are expecting her to act like a guy and she seems young,immature playing games, probably also because she has a bf, that is not doing great but good enough to keep her until she finds replacement...and you think too much about someone that is not even worthy of it, probably because shes cute and you started to like her from all the games shes playing and you thinking about her...

@Leo Gura I dont know why would then someone who loves himself need to put someone down all the time,making themselves appear important? I always thought self hate comes from being insecure in who you are, which causes low self belief and low self belief causes negative self talk and view of yourself... then self hate... you must then get external validation to love yourself(pseudo love) because you cant self reflect(as a narc) mybe im wrong in all this...

Narcissists are full of shame and insecurity,thats why they lash out to not see it and have to have a great sense of self, so they dont see the deep rooted trauma....they actually dont love themselves its a compensation...they are addicted to validation,compliments and attention to feed their ego so it appears they love themselves...there is a difference between personality disorter and someone actually loving themselves that looks like narcissism... Difference is narcissist feeds of enviroment and is insecure full of shame vs someone feeding of himself and love for himself that comes from him that could look the same..

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@Vrubel Really ?

You were dealing with an average males,you havent came across a real man that doesnt lie,manipulate but tell you how it is. In that way then you can choose if you gonna follow that or not;there is rarely any skelletons in the closet...

Im amazed how can you watch Locario and still care what Tate is saying or doing...

Im in a relationship with myself we are happy together

Design creativly what you gonna talk for at least 2 min of material...nooby have one sentence and then get shut down in their heads... Have 3-4 moves prepared(like in chess but you playing with yourself) like 1st move ill say and do this by the 4th move ill give her my number... Be detached from the outcome of what her 5th move will be... Then see what you did right and what you gonna do better next, mybe move 3 should be on second position, mybe i need to add a little bit of humor its like making a recipe and you are original chef... Good luck!

Stop spamming half baked threads.

@Something Funny Nice one ?

@Something Funny Yeah and find all the best replys to each to put you in position you want to be...

Order water ?

@Tyler Robinson I cant tell you whats happening because i dont think about what other guys are thinking...i can give my perspective only.... What you described is off to me actually ,because every relationship that starts with lies will crumble eventually they(guys you decribed) are disengenius so its bad foundation from the start potraying a role.If you ask me i would lose interest if a girl is not compatible with my game so i would know before getting into a relationship if shes up for a task(and also me). In a relationship if shes not following my game im losing interest.Otherwise there will be skeletons without having structure layed down.If i stop doing things i was doing ,means im doing it for you to get something from you aka manipulating,but i should be doing and continue doing things i was doing ,because its how i conduct myself not to impress or get something from you.

@onacloudynight Okay let me put it like this:if you expect us to read your mind and put 2 sentences in a thread, that doesnt have anything that contribute, add to the discussing or queastion then ill have to issue warning points for low quality post..

Make posts with some substance to it..

Thats what i was traying to say its you expecting things like dont be flakey,dont be this and that you should rely only on yourself simply put...in practical level its more to it so you dont turn it into another manipulation like acting nicely...

@StarStruck Because you put trust in someone that is like that, shows me you are the one who is relying on her vs you not caring or changing the therapist; meaning you are not trusting yourself being self sufficient on your own so you complain about them being flakey if you can rely on yourself then you dont care move on(change them) and accepting how they are...talking about it like its a problem is you not relying on yourself your decision,judgments and you being in a drivers seat...

Why she will rely on you while you cant even rely on yourself?

@onacloudynight Dont be there is always more room in hell to party

@Jacob Morres So shes a hoe because shes not giving you what you wanted after she smells your low self esteem, thats dangerous if you are not red pilled,soon it will infect your mind...

@onacloudynight too much rsd in you not much yourself in you my friend

Strongest frame is authenticity so everything else is inferior

I would rather get slapped hard 10 times than to listen to a girl complaining about her boyfriend on something i call a date,or in general thats some sucka bs ? ignore me if its triggering im trying to help here even if you cant see because i called it before it happend...