NoSelfSelf

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  1. Well i cant tell you outside of Zagreb but here its one of worst nightclubs in europe but they getting better. If you visiting me then you need to fix that escort and friends for emotional needs part, i dont hang out with anyone,standards are high for that. But since you are God himself šŸ¤”
  2. I can only put Canada on the list i can promise that.If im high value provider i would be able to travel like yourself. I see you learned that wanting yourself over a woman "makes" women want you more,that's nice step for mankind.
  3. He's back with new chapter i cant wait to read it.
  4. @MarkKol what practical? you cant even go talk to a woman so why would i go there.Need to fix your mindset first;but now its like looking to fix something that thinks its perfectly fine,since it has all this stories of how things are. You are not coachable since you know everything.
  5. Its numbers to a degree, because yeah everyone can find someone but will it be on your terms or her's ? It is whats matters the most.
  6. Okay i get it but also even if you are in the village,desert or mars who you are does it change? Does it matter if she has lines of guys if she has a boyfriend this is all defeatist mindsets. This is first problem that needs to be adressed location is easier to change. Are you the guy shes gonna pick from everyone or if she doesnt why do you care?
  7. Not really only thing its giving you the analogy of life.Calculating moves same in life,strategy/tactics to tacle the situation etc. I just love how deep and insanely crazy to grasp,since every position is like you are playing for the first time in your life it seems. Im currently 2000+ online but my aim is Cm 2200 elo,Fm is crazy far as it seems.
  8. I am but you are busy being distracted by my cyinical/"dark" humor that i always give insights beneath it all. Im not making fun of a person, im attacking the dishonesty if someone came and said im scared to talk to women and i dont know how, then there will be no cynicism. If its triggering and one doesnt see the value ill delete them, if that makes them feel better and stay where they are at.
  9. What an excuse there is no city to do it in,i guess there are 2 countries called Croatia.One that where you talk to a woman snipers shoot on sight, other where there are women literally every 10 steps. Mind literally compensate for lack of game to look somewhere else with usually"im too short" "she will leave you for guy with magical powers" "i dont have billion dollars to satisfy her" And biggest one yet there is no city, i guess bigger one will be there is no floor to walk on, so i cant approach her without a flying car, coming up 2035.
  10. This queastion is the reason why you will be another statictic, because you define yourself by the average.
  11. šŸ‘šŸ‘ great respons.Rating is based on how well women put dress that fits her body and eyeliner, so gullible male can salivate to the deception of beauty.
  12. You are not dating top shelf doesnt make sense since you are not top shelf guy,you are not gaming nothing you are being played left and right you just dont see it.If you all that then you wouldnt even need to create this thread its a thread of zero game and understanding of self.
  13. I dont get why tf are you lying ,then cope/cover up that you aint nothing with all this bs black pill theory.This will take you decade to unravel been there done that its total waste of time.
  14. Its not even the standards its lack of men,men are not men ,so her standards must be high to compensate for why she should be with an average feminine guy. All her high standards are not for men with game its for the crowd.
  15. I see so much beauty in this.This whole dating thing is actually perfectly made.It exposes you on all levels.The ones who cheat's the game,the ones who lie to themselves,the one who think they know what's going on, the game will just reject you(you reject yourself actually).Game rejects you by woman saying few "harsh" things,telling you how it is and that alone pokes you in your bones. It exposes you by fear you feel when you see her,exposes you when you think shes beautiful and perfect,exposes you by her moving you with what shes doing. Its all just showing you on what level of understanding and embodiment you are at. If you are thirsty for sex and now she uses it as a weapon,its just perfect because sex shouldnt impact you to chase it. If she says i want a guy who earns 1 billion dollar a year and you react to it,you just exposed your level of game. If you are not excited and looking at becoming tougher rather than choosing to be less ,then that alone exposes you to the game and game will reject you the moment you are in front of a woman.If rejection even exists you reject yourself long before you are in front of her !
  16. Yeah he is embodiment of the mentality im talking about.He just doesnt care and do whats needed for him.
  17. To conclude with a quote i heared today:if there are 1000 unique men in the room, there will always be the one so unique, its like he can stand on the top of the needle from the rest,be that one.
  18. Should/shouldn't is all on the individual im expressing my prefrence.I want to be so sure of myself because my aim is to be most effective as possible.I value my inner growth over materialistic gain and worlds/humans connections/ways.Ofcourse my aim is materialistic and all inbetween, but its not about it,its about me being completely independent psychologically.So the more outside influences i have its just shows me where im lacking in my own influence over me. Its neutral because you dont compare it to nobody, so there are no emotional reactions or problems, its just i see this is not effective lets remove it because its not serving me to where i want to go/want to be for me.
  19. Yeah and if its a mix then its no good either (when i say good im coming from paradigm of my idea of best life). So ultimately when one has foundation there are no good/bad its just is,it makes who i am and the bad is only bad if its stops me from something,then one must get rid of it.
  20. Well its not 100% accurate nothing is but 9/10 the way someone speaks exposes their mindset and based on that mindset i can see where they are mentally, where they are mentally that's how their decisions gonna be and that's the life they live. So from their perceptions,how one forms the queastions,sometimes the information they valauntereed exposes it.
  21. Im saying that his decisions and actions are based on the outside influences.Same way they didnt believe 1 mile could be ran in certen time.So ultimately he is making decisions, but based on wrong interpretations.Its not coming from understanding of himself but his interpretations of the world and authorities. Then based on that i can see he actually is not authority over his life, because his decision are actually not his decisions based on knowledge of self but knowledge of the interpretations. He is not leader of himself ,he leads himself based on reactions which can give an illusion of leadership, one actually think he lives in his world but he lives based on world imposed on them.
  22. Exactly, negative self image is created by not being sure of oneself,so the more self image takes a hit and one is not sure of itself(have strong foundation like i said to lady in a thread) the outside impact will be stronger, self image gets a hit because its not matching the expectations the more the hit is personal the higher degree of depression. Like if i dont find being asocial as my self image a problem,no matter how much i get a hit i wont get depressed(or affected in any way) ill get depressed if im not sure of myself(some aspect of my ego is fragile) and outside things keep hitting it/ruining my self image.Self image makes my self worth go down the more bad i feel about myself.
  23. Funny thing today i figured out reason i was depressed.It goes deep but the cause of it so i dont write an essay if basically not being sure of oneself.Depression is being unsure of yourself on most aspects of life.
  24. Well you need to be surrounded by positive outside influences.Because everything outside of you is shaping your thinking, then your thinking shapes your emotions and based on those emotions you interpit that's who i am and what situation is. At the core is ego,outside influences formes thinking that is poking the ego and what "holes" in the ego are poked that's what you feel based on how those thought makes you think about yourself(ego). As a man im working from inside out,you as a woman work from outside in. If you wish to become more masculine, then its backwards you form thinking about yourself that creates how you feel about yourself and based on that you come in situations.Man doesnt look at the past,people,surroundings to tell them how to feel about themselves because they create their own fundation.But its a process and i dont think woman can come there but i could be wrong.