NoSelfSelf

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  1. No masculine man will accept friendzone, he will be direct and if she says no, he will walk away thats it simple as that. Dancing is good opportunity, but without game its nothing, because you can meet women everywhere.
  2. My opinion is there is no such thing as toxic masculinity or femininity,its all about character of the person with masculinity/femininity... Toxic man is toxic,toxic woman is toxic simple as that... Also healthy not healthy is relative something healthy in my eyes is toxic in someone elses,something healthy in societies standards makes you a weak male in most of the cases in context of women...
  3. @Leo Gura So thats the guy you were mentioning in the older videos crazy stuff...
  4. Narcissist usually cant see that hes a problem and would refuse to go to therapy.Which means you are not lost cause,i have a belief that narcissism cant be cured completely but that could be a bs. What i recommend is a book "Completion process" by Teal Swan, since narcissism is mostly trauma based so that could be a good place to look.
  5. @Something Funny Im not tough,im what i eat, a pussy
  6. @Something Funny Yeah women dont want to date women
  7. So bleeding once a month,mood swings,fixing your make up/ hair every day for hours,low self esteem/ obsessing with weight etc. Still jelous?
  8. They think tf, because how can you like her when you dont know her basically...
  9. Leave something for us humans pls ??
  10. Creating competition whit yourself to not focus on others ..
  11. Pay for what is the queastion?
  12. @koyadr3 Now we know why its impossible..
  13. @HMD You discussed with her ?pls dont do that ever,trying to negotiate attraction ouch.
  14. Are you willing to pay for coaching or just feel sorry for yourself?
  15. I would say its a self made individual, who is standing on everything that he is and is living up to that standard with no excuses,bitterness,blaming ...
  16. You were having a boring ,non stimulating friendly chatter that was leading nowhere,causes her to see that you are not the one she feels attracted to.You positioned yourself as a friendly guy,you didnt give her the reason why she should see you. Yes every girl has their type but will forget about it if you know what you are doing.If she was leading the conversation towards something boring im sure she did, you have to push it towards where you want to go to a meet up.(i can give you an example how to use what shes saying to push it towards where you want it to go if i saw text messages).. She has to think like :ok this guy is not my type,but something about him is pushing me to be with him. Leo said it all in few sentences its all about seeing if shes biting or not quickly...
  17. @StarStruck If you dont know yourself,if you dont love/worship yourself how can you accept yourself you are jumping steps...
  18. @StarStruck You should obviously worship yoursef,but to do that you must be student of the game...
  19. Most common i see is self comfirming bias,not going deep enough,you get the point of basic level of understanding thinking you got it,not spenting enough time on one thing moving on to next,thinking that thinking and getting the insights is ultimate growth...
  20. @StarStruck Only if its 1v5 if its 1v1 the one that knows grappling wins its not even funny...
  21. @Roy I dont know you enough to know what you are trying to say and im no mind reader...
  22. @CARDOZZO That's the main thing that i learned is that seeking resaults,books,practices outside of myself is whats blocks you from connection with yourself,connection with yourself starts when you stop using outside world to define you or show you how things are in terms of yourself. So in practical ways learning about yourself,knowing yourself in real detail but that information is extracted and thought by you (the whys the connection with the thing you contemplating seeing its you) not by help of books. Then you have a place in your mind where you have all information about yourself the more you have and the deeper it goes the more you gonna connect with yourself and its like you falling in love because you see that strong connection with the mind that is created by you for you. Its different than methaphysical love this is more like human love that i got recently that was my process.
  23. @CARDOZZO Its really weird to want to being loved...when you are connected with yourself you dont seek love outside of yourself.When you are not being connected with yourself that causes to want connection outside of yourself and then when you get it, you feel completed and from that you fall in love with that person because it gave you something you cant give yourself.Its like you are completed and if that person leaves you its like you lost part of yourself. Thats why its really weird to want being loved... Since when you get connection with yourself its like you fell in love which sounds weird since its thought you need to fall in love with someone or you are a narcissist if you do it with yourself only...