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@RawJudah that makes no sense how did he pick her up then?

@Leo Gura romantic relationships are all lies then...i need to figured out how to make it healthy its like its rigged to become devils activity like almost everything 😵

@Leo Gura i feel a need to manipulate to grow out of my weaknesses and to do better at things...but i do it in moderation, so much less than before...whats the alternative then ?

@Leo Gura i thought pick up is full of manipulation until i got one of the rsd courses and there was not so many manipulation they teach giving,colaboration not competitive mind frame,being yourself...ofcourse its still manipulation but how can you get resaults in anything if you dont manipulate in some degree...me being introvert i had to force myself being social and thats also manipulation and if i dont manipulate myself to be more social i wont grow...

Are spiritual powers a distraction or a great way to help yourself and others around you?

You misunderstood pick up phase and relationship phase between man and women...

For example ego is superior in things where you need to do things in strategic logical order...while its inferior in apreciate and see the beauty in music for example where you need to be present... How can you merge those together ?

@Nahm well ill trust and give more attention to intuition its like a feeling that guides you to a certen decision so ill let intuition guide me to the answer rather "me" trying to figure out things etc.

@Zigzag Idiot yeah i think i got what i was looking for,i have to use my intuition more than logic in things that needs quick decisions strategy etc..

@Leo Gura yeah then that ends everything about being sucessful in outside world like "i want it to be"

So basically what i got from the answer is to be as much as a devil as you are a loving being?

I get what you guys saying but i cant think without bringing ego in it,i mean i can but its easier with ego out of habit,perhaps training is needed...

@Serotoninluv yeah thats good point but how you use logic without bringing in the ego by using logic you have to imagine someone constructing logic ...

@DoubleYou no they are not the one there is presence and there is mind...i call ego all the thoughts....

@Synchronicity Its frustrating for no ego mind to be logical

@Commodent Yeah thats a good way to put it... Good examples its not that simple to define...

I asumme that when you talked about all the achivements he view you as arrongant and full of yourself etc.and thats the parts he repressed in himself so he hates to see it in others ,now hes shy etc and it hurts his ego to see that arrogant,higher achiver is doing better and he thinks he needs to be like that in order to get that...

@Leo Gura sry for posting here can you check out a message i sent you in inbox tnx?

Hows that related?

Well become more attractive to girls if you learned "the game" and how relationship works i think you would be in right direction im not advanced or anything but i think this is how it goes...

Social conditioning...

Love your guys respons!

I didnt understand you live in different reality and come back? Like you enter another dimension and come back?

When you start to be at the cause not the effect when you realize that you can change to not be affected by something because you are in control of your world(taking responsibility of your emotions,states and not waiting for something to change it for better or worse)...there is alot of social programming,traumas in subconcious that you need to work on so basically everything we do here...

Its not a crucial skill but its helpful to be good at it writing and use it to make plans joke but light people cant see your intentions...