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So i have queastions, so porn is damaging because one that watches porn thinks,its how real life is? Does not touching yourself to porn gives you something that makes women like you? So if one does not watch porn he will have "healthy" relationship because he wont put sexual imagination and phantasy in the bedroom?

Its better than this https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6q-EwuAAHS/?igsh=MWo3c3ZyMzJqdjc3Zg==

Its a strong grip of who you are that nobody can push you off of...

@Ben2204 Well,with the last post you just told every women on here who you are and what would it be like being with you.So before looking at looks you are senting women the stories where they percieve you as weak without you even realizing, thats where "hate" comes from.

@Nemra Ok boss,im expecting my salary at the beggining of the month.Learn game boss so we dont go bankrupt boss.

@Nemra No you dont understand nothing 0%, where the fu#ck did i mention manipulation? I mean i said game is not about women disconnect is that you put your perspective into what im saying ,learn some game then we can talk...

@Schizophonia You are lost with this, its like Bruce lee saying dont focus on the finger because you will miss all the heavenly glory.Looks hit only the initial curiosity but when you open your mouth then she will see who is who. @Nemra Definition of game is:one thought,one mind,one way. You cannot not use game,everything you say do is game, there is no point where you say okay now ill turn on the button called game.Thats why 2 people saying same thing creates different reacton. Relationship is the quality of leadership you have with the parts of yourself. Attraction phase is establishing comfort/trust and building emotional connection she has with you,while relationship is building on top of that with unique experience you will give her with how i said you leading yourself. Why do you care about her, thats why game is important you should focus on you(being selfish need to create a thread on what selfishness really is) be the problem, be the thing that she bitches about with her girlfriends, while she then always think about you and you will always lose if she in your mind vs you in her mind.

@Nemra goal is never a woman, relationship ,womens acceptence or understanding womens emotions, but to become the emotion to a woman. You need to learn game to understand what im even saying thats where disconnect is, im not talking about normal human endevour.

@Nemra Women suppose to be guided by their emotions.The thing is that i dont want to change nothing, i just need to present myself so she can get a full picture of who i am.Based on who i am shes gonna modify her behaviour or not.If by presenting myself i sent signals that she recognize femininty in me, shes gonna back off, if she cant find femininity shes gonna be drawn in because she doesnt know nor understands what a man is,how he operates.

Me watching the episode i came to the easy obvious point that isnt most important thing having your own system in place of right and wrong?.Like i could see that im wrong when someone points it out,but im only wrong from the point of view of that persons values,morals,paradigms.Im choosing to be wrong from their pov, because this thing im holding i know is right for me.So many times you can get into an argument where im right based on my direction and my mission, while it conflicts other person direction and their mission/values/identity.Thats why following spiritual teachers or any teacher is dangerous if you dont know where are they actually leading you, who are they? With that reasoning i could be 100% right in one direction and 100% wrong in another direction. Isnt then that we can only see that we are wrong when we expend more of who we are? So am i wrong only based on how well i know myself and know how far i want to grow? There is like no objective truth on anything besides absolute truth aka God. Last thing with right or wrong i always remember Amy Whinehouse, like the right thing to do was to go to the addiction therapy ,but how do we know what is best for somebody and why then right or wrong matter in objective sense? How wrong am i here in this reasoning?

@Nemra I have emotions but im not emotional. Im acting based on calculated mindset that could include feelings but its not the main thing that drives behaviour.Sometime emotion can be used but emotional about yourself not the woman. Feminine people will see a woman and cant approach because how beautiful she is or will completely change based on the fear they experiencing.

@Nemra I also know that you would think being a man is toxic because you embody femninity. If he was rooted in himself then he wouldnt even believe in rejection,he wouldnt even desire a woman more than himself and put all focus on himself not a woman,so all his bitterness is product of not knowing how to value himself over a woman. When one values woman more then ironically he will look to manipulate and act weak around them.Acting out of emotion aka outside world which is feminine.

@Nemra then by your logic your post is called being ignorant. ignorant and toxic to yourself by judging someone like that, i would say you judge women the same calling them sluts if they do something bad.

No because not everyone will choose the right choices to "make it".

By being rooted in yourself and not feminity, everyone bitter towards a woman is feminine and women want a man. Be honest with yourself, you have zero game you dont love and believe in yourself.

@bebotalk i know you know that you talking to a she,so it seems you cant learn,to not scare women off this forum i publicy say you getting 4 warning points like the rules been set.

@Rafael Thundercat well it seems that you know the answers so give me a hint.Like its a delicate matter because if you read a book for example and you think it holds an objective truth you are just hurting yourself.Then you tell me go see it in your direct experience i could, but there could be something missing in my understanding to see how the objective truth works so my personal truth is in the way of me seeing it.Also if you are programmed to think like someone here that Leo has all the truth(even tho it could be 100% truth) still hurts you because there is 0 personal truth combined.

@Leo Gura will do 👍 thanks

@Leo Gura So its even more complicated than i thought,ive been wrestling with this for a decade i guess it will take few more to get the bottom of it @Kksd74628 somewhat like that but i see it like making a cocktail its hard to balnse it out

Yeah thats how it should be. You got an answer that thats slavery but thats opposite of slavery.Slavery is you must do it, but here you get big picture of how things are and where they are going, so women can choose if thats good for her or not.Also if you see she is forcing herself to do it then she doesnt value you so let her go also. I guess to be a real women learn to asses what standards and rules you would follow. All of the advice for women is good but at the end of the day woman need a real man to be a real woman and its because of the thing i said above..

@Leo Gura So to put it simply what is the relationship between objective truth and subjective truth? How much one has the freedom in subjective truth since by logic objective truth is superior?

@Juan Game is in all asecpts of life so game=life. Everywhere where you need to do something for yourself in your own way.

@Leo Gura So my queastion was and forgot to ask,where does the personal truth fit into all of this,does it bent to the objective truth,or it can "overpower" it because everyone is different, or it has room for interpratiom based on following the objectivity? Its like they are working together but its little confusing...

@Leo Gura For most of my life i was thinking about objective truths you are talking about,now i see that only truth is inside me because for me fish could = money for you food, then in terms of epistomology objective truth is coming to the essence of the nature of that thing without personal identity involved? Because i could know the objective truth for example you need great genes to be an elite athlete, but with that thinking it hurts my growth because i wont even reach my genetic potential because i would quit before even starting, so i choose to not believe it even tho im wrong.

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