NoSelfSelf

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  1. For a man depends where its coming from,caring because one needs a woman or caring because she earned the right for me to care about her.But i will never care about a woman more than me, that's self love but if you are with a man then he will make sure you feel special, taken care of but its not coming from a place that you he thinks "oh she is special" just because you breathe. Care and love comes from care and love for himself not you,the more he puts care im himself the more you will feel cared for and give respect in return. Its not so simple.
  2. Thing is all this debate about being a bad boy is misunderstood,its not about being mean its about massive self love.All this dating problems comes from self hate,when one loves himself then all behaviour will come from strenght and not clinginess.As a man caring and loving more for a woman is creating disrespect, because she will sense that clinginess,lack of love.When one love himself then he will not tolerate any kind of disrespect yes, because a man will sacrefice a woman before himself, since there is nothing more he loves than himself and from that place can love a woman not before. Guy in a video doesnt love himself,he wants to artificially learn all the behaviours without going to learn real game which is self love.
  3. in this movie they play blindfold Go with clear pieces looks cool. Well the more i play chess the more i dont understand it,probably would never figure it out as human.
  4. Thanks alot for descriptive answer i just might give it a go 😄
  5. I watched a korean movie about it but didnt understand how its played.Since you are experienced can you explain briefly?
  6. It ruins chess if you are professional on your level its irrelevant.
  7. I think in every opening, since a slight change of opponents set up ,move order,tempi can be what it seems like its always the same thing, while in few moves oh snap im losing and opponent has initiative.Im glad i get the line i memorized, but usually i dont so remembering how ideas work helps me. Other thing is that like puzzles learning openings before playing just puts your mind in the right way of thinking for chess. I was more talking about transfer to other gametypes like fisher random,learning openings helps if you dont look to just memorize, since programs shows whole games and how its played to give you a whole picture of how to play...
  8. I understand , i have million of things to learn before focusing on the endgame ",100 endgames you must know "covers you to a certen point ,its all steps not overwhelming yourself with titled level endgames.
  9. You guys misunerstood the openings,its not about just memorizing 10-15 moves, its about the ideas behind why those moves work.Its about learning the structure of the positions, so you can understand the plans that transition to follow up.It all helps you understand chess,good opening programs are full of information to see the depth of each move. If i know 10 openings and you know 1, im better just because i know more about the structures/positions/ideas that transfer to the random position, from openings i dont even know. Lets say i know opening number 1 really well,some random opening can have similar ideas,so its on me to connect the dots and create the same plans from them and that makes you a better player overall...
  10. Your house,your laptop/mobile phone,your make up,mostly your clothes,this forum etc.
  11. Anything that was created with unstoppable action through trial and error is masculine.So everything you see around you.
  12. Atleast 10% got into your absolute views 😏
  13. Exactly my point ,your objective truth is based on feelings (trauma respons) not actually you talking to women in real life. Even if you did ,you wouldnt have objective viewpoint since you have trauma respons. I make it about you because its you whos gonna make feelings turn into facts,nothing personal tho.You never look at you,you let world define you.Thaths how it usually is.All you do is turning away from yourself that's why there is no growth but just feelings and what you see turns into your reality. Im not dissmising everything, its just lets say 10% correct and you make that 10% into 100% based on a feeling.
  14. @Sugarcoat My last point before i call it a day,this is what i was saying :his story is that he got rejected by few women,felt bad about it because he has no sense of self(that entails knowing himself on many levels). Then he saw black pill he attached those feelings of rejection to everything they said and now he is defined by it! Litterly hes black pill minion walking around because his feelings got validated by his experience of hurt.
  15. There is no development if there are people needing black pill 😅
  16. This is the reason why women love men. No complications its right here. Ta-da!
  17. Well the more immature you are the more attraction for a guy is how "hot" she is. The more mature you get you are looking at the level of "hotness" matches the act/thinking.
  18. Its not according to me, im looking at things how they function. If one sees a woman and gets all excited, its same as woman seeing a dress and gasps at its sight.
  19. Well, defines means that what has happened in situation the individual thinks thats what he is.Yeah if woman does something one interpits it a certen way based on how he feels. Lets take red pill content or all that women are good for nothing videos. Individual who has no sense of self will take those videos and based on their experience attach emotions to those videos even though they havent experienced women cheating but they will take it as complete truth based on the feeling.That's how they got them they take the bad experiences and feelings and push it to individuals who can relate to them. All the threads on here are reactions based on relatable experiences and now those videos push them even further.They wont look at themselves as the problem because of so called proof based on their feelings. As of now i still cant explain it fully because i dont know it. I yet dont know the deeper mechanism,because deeper mechanism starts at so called core and im still studying it.
  20. Key is what ones sees ,then one interpits it a certen way then one feels the emotion and that emotion defines the indovidual,so then in front a woman one feels like he cant do anything so act tottaly stupid without knowing why. Im looking to spread masculine message thanks.
  21. Yes because when individual see's a woman and thinks she's beautiful or whatever,in that moment shes special which causes individual to feel a certen way and attach that thinking to the feeling which causes reaction.In reaction(being nervous etc.) one beats around the bush,being indirect,being unsure of itself because hes not in control of himself in that moment.Emotion of what individual sees defines them, because they dont stand on who they are(probably because they dont know themselves). Hope this makes sense.
  22. Nothing have a nice day.
  23. Im not emotional but i have emotions big difference.