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This is it! when i saw it,immidietly wanted to share since there is so much confusion around this(as a guy just starting who hasnt found himself ).If one is dealing with a woman and she cant feel gentlness handling her ,she will interpit everything as agressive and disttasteful.But again if someone looks to be gentle to get her in bedroom then its a big fail and natural asshole(non integrated) succedes because he could fake charm, but since he has backbone it works. This is mindblowing because asshole must have charm 😂

Because you are judgmental, that is an instant turn off because indirectly she interpits you are going to judge her the same,discussing politics is a bad idea or anything where you going to be 2 oppositions fighting eachother thats a big no,you directly judging her calling her disgusting thres nothing playful about it,when she knows you well you can use it,but then she knows you not coming from judgmental place. Dont be judgmental in any way or talk about nothing that will not create intimacy in the end.You are showcasing to her that you not mature with this approach.

Post specific message and things you did on a date where you got that reaction so we can asses it.

@gambler To avoid all this stop caring about what other people do and just focus on what you want to offer to women/people, without asking anything in return like a perk of being around you.

@Tenebroso Please spare us your pity and hate you have over yourself nobody want a negative feel sorry for yourself attitude massive turn off for women/people in general.

@bambi Swearing and leaving nasty remarks is enough to get 2 warning points,also he has history of women hate on here so thats also in the picture.

@Twentyfirst Stop watching manosphere videos it will help you alot.This is all just unnecesary clutter in your mind.What you gonna acomplish with this? Change someones mind nah let people believe and do what they want focus on your path be gentle(man). Nice guys im talking about dont look to enforce things on others if you find what you dont like just say this is not what im looking for it wont work out peace. Ofcourse be what you wanna be but not in this thread,its thread of niceness for a change and for me too 😄

@Princess Arabia I fail to see where you picked up the slave part, since i said shes the one choosing if she wants to follow based on who i am.Like in a restaurant there is 10 items you can pick now you can choose if thats what you like or not,you not gonna come and try to change the program. This is interesting topic we unpacked it has alot to it and definately its not a slave relationship since a man gives a free will for a woman to choose by giving her many options to give her choice if she wants to get on board or not. With a man you finally feel free because you can be what you want because its encouraged it goes againts the scope of the thread.

@Princess Arabia Only thing i see the problem is that there is no leader and follower,if there is no dynamic like that i dont see how does a sexual dynamic would work, it would be like friends with benefits unique type of relationship.Like i said before same as any work or job enviroment there is a program of how things are.So in dating phase man has to show the experience of how its like to be with him long term,so woman can decide to follow it since its the thing she also wants.If man is transparent with his personality,skills,character,life style and doesnt change it for a woman she then can get on board or not easier but whos transparent nowadays?

@Princess Arabia Yeah best strategy to grow yourself the best i can so one can be the best version of myself.If this mindset shift doesnt happen guy always needs to fit in the womens narrative.Thats extremely tough to do meanwhile she cant really see for who you really are.

@Schizophonia Im intrigued @Lila9 💯 @Princess Arabia I see, my job is not being concerned about how things are going to be percieved by others,that's the manipulation of myself and the other person at play.My job is to present myself the best way i can and give other person free will to choose without me modifying myself for that person.But to find the balance of how im going to play my strenghts,so the women who love what i offer can benefit from it.Imagine if i have really well crafted dark houmor but many women dont like it so i wont express it,but that one women really loves it thats my aim.Me being me and other person loving me for being me its bottom line of the dating game.

There is much more to this that is spoken here,shes free to express what she wants without immidiet criticism.Alfas dont control women with absolutes if you are nice doesnt mean you automatically are weak aka beta.Your comment is exactly why this thread is made there is different approaches.You can be charming and tell her things elegantly or you can be agressive dominating its different ways of doing things. Yeah behind chilvarious man is many many layers that make that nices really attractive its more to it than just be at service Sent link of that video so we can experience it.

That's exactly in different words what i was looking to say about this.Being nice is taken for being soft but actually they are not soft,its strenght that is expressed nicely if that makes sense.Yeah you dont need to be loud agressive to be magnetic, its the more i contemplated i saw this and wanted to share since there is more extrovarted approach.Bragging about the women success is screaming insecurity i hate to see that.

@Rafael Thundercat Im not doing this for a woman its all about me becoming better.Resault is me.

Easiest example i can find is this actor. Interesting blend of charm and charisma.Since im biased because of the thread it looks to me he has more charm than charisma,but his charisma is high.Still i dont know how they work together.

@ItsNick Are you proficient in cocktail making?.I started to love making them also would like bartending to up my social game.If so any direction you can point me for a begginer?

Complaining and bitterness is all ecompasing through every area that's why one hurts himself in long term with short term fix.But you on point.

@Sugarcoat You can literally give him all that and he will still find a way to say its not working, i actually tested this some people just wont grow and too stuborn.

@Sugarcoat Actually he did, he went to talk to women didnt work out then he resonated with red pill, took those videos to heart and now find every reason to hate dating through everything,so that video is just another proof, you put another nail to his heart you so mean 😁

@Sugarcoat Now he will never become a nice guy god dammit! 😆

now it all makes sense

Only players can be that smooth 😂

@VictorB02 Yes become my teacher im willing to learn 🙏 but now im on vacation till next week so we can start on monday.

Cringefest 101 🤦‍♂️

@Tenebroso Its so uncomfortable that i have trouble to sleep at night. @Schizophonia Point of the thread is that you dont be a one trick pony,its not just fun its many things combined.Thats why niceness alone is not good ,being only toxic not good.Create persona that suits you.