NoSelfSelf

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  1. @Someone here Okay someone who get's laid doesnt look to be liked thats my advice,also i never make it personal because i cant know someone, its the ideas/mindsets i dont like.
  2. @Someone here Its like me commenting on your stuff is best thing that happened to you 😆
  3. Pay 150 euros dont be cheap 😂
  4. @trenton If you are stuck then you lack game learn that.I dont mean game as in pick up, i mean learning basics of game so everything you are doing can actually work thats why you stuck. Also radical honesty explore that.
  5. You must know what you weak at,or what you are confused about on the journey towards whatever.You must go from the point of your development so you ask queastions that move you foward vs queastions that is out of your reach, those you leave if there is more time.
  6. @Salvijus I contemplated a little and what i came up with is what all the identity is about.It is about thinking what's best for individual to survive and live best life, based on what best type of life would be for him,based on his ego development. Like if a value freedom,believe goverment rules are blocking me from my idea of freedom and for me freedom is motorcycles ill be identify myself as a gang motorcycle member, because ill be attracted to it based on what i think is best for me. Like fundamental thing of identity is survival, like its so obvious and yet never came to my mind.
  7. @Salvijus Tag me if you talking to me so its not confusing. I used that as an example(lazy vs productive) to "make" you further talk about intention connection to identity to find something i dont already know.
  8. No more into the false ego 😄 That's how i see it too
  9. @Salvijus I know its false but still has serious implication on survival so that's my interest knowing my "false" self more and more i know my true self.
  10. @Salvijus Only if you lay down your own survival.Do you know the answer to my previous queastion tho? Im more interested in ego i was working on spirituality for past 10 years im done for now.
  11. @Salvijus My take is that all intentions are self serving ,you doing anything is benefiting you but the thing is one thinks it benefits himself but more times than not hurts itself.I digressed ,but how would you tell how intention showcase your true identity like in one moment my intention is to be totally lazy in another to be productive its complex.?
  12. True because core identity is without thought it just moves.
  13. @Salvijus im more interested in understanding identity, you mentioning intention is the thing i never heared in this context the way you said it.
  14. @trenton Im not offended, its just there is so much topics to discuss to better your life than this.From your history it more hurts you than help in my opinion.
  15. @Salvijus Can you expand on this idea or it's just simple as that?
  16. How would i feel about being raped ? Is this serious? Whats the point of this thread?
  17. @Schizophonia How's the view from Tibetan mountains i hope they treat you well up there 🧘‍♂️
  18. @Princess Arabia I have my prefer channel to watch the highlights, then its best to specify what was great in the video, if its needed to mention so person can notice on its own video highlight.
  19. @Princess Arabia Links are fine i can see the name of the video i liked that race too, i was rooting for hong kong since i paid for the program she used to prepare for 100m from her coach to die trying to complete 🤣.Interesting thing hong kong gives 750k for gold medal and 250k for bronze now she earned around 500k.Idk how much Sweden gets its individual.
  20. Yes but concentration is needed,you dont just sit and pray for it to happen if it happens it will be just a show and when it ends you are the same.But the more enlightment experiences you get the more your mind become quiet then you can see better.Its like muddy waters getting clearer.
  21. @Princess Arabia Interesting thing is if i would get "rejected" like 5-10 times in a row i wouldnt feel nothing.Only few days after i would get an egobacklash because of me having mindset that it meant something.But where i would feel hurt is when im "vibing" with her and suddenly to test me she will start to act cold,now i just move on if she plays games okay not with me.
  22. @RedLine That would mean that you should still feel hurt if someone steals your candy like you would as a kid.You would still have tantrums if things dont go your way.That's why one grows,you assume we all the same there are people who are predators in this world and you are its prey.
  23. @Princess Arabia True its mindblowing always reminds me of Marcus Aurelius quote.But when "Social matrix" is more strong in someones mind than reality one build for himself, will always be in reaction to other people.Reaction=not having strong identity and standing on it action=you being creator of your own world. That's why women test you to see if you gonna move from your I. When i started with this dating thing i will never forget woman telling me:" she wants someone with strong "I" and i told her i lost my I 🤣🤣🤣 since i was heavily into spirituality,always makes me chuckle.
  24. @RedLine Why would it hurt when she doesnt know me and she has a prefrence of what she wants.Also she can want me 6 months from now.It only hurts when i want her thinking she is something special because she looks good and im not worthy of it.
  25. @RedLine My mindset is i dont believe in rejection.Womens reaction dont change who i am.If things dont work or work doesnt change me fundamentally.Mindset: I dont care how mind works for most people i work on my mind. If by now you dont see how you choose your reality, then there is no point in discussing further but beware no trauma work,meditation work will help with this only mindset shift will.