NoSelfSelf

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  1. This is really complex topic it takes alot of time to become aware. Mind will always create problems no matter who you are so its about active thinking and not just reacting. At this point its really tough to explain that inner direct experiences, its like one cant explain it clearly, its key to see it for yourself.How you see it is on you.
  2. Have undying spirit ,there is no doubt in your mind that you can go through this.Keep building it,mind of matter matra.That's all you have control over use it, you got this!
  3. @NewKidOnTheBlock You should start caring ,because closemindedness / not hear to learn is an offence.
  4. Im a moderator, so one point is to see what is your reason to be one here,if you are dismissing everything someone says?
  5. This is your problem ,you wish to be like a woman that everything comes easy ,that's why you become bitter...
  6. Yes your mind causes suffering,you said if you had a bad day,that means something didnt go as planned which caused you to think in a way that makes you feel a certen way.If you are brushing teeth without a thought and focus only on the act of brushing, you cant suffer from mind.You just need to see the difference between mind action and body action. When you can see a seperation it will make you present dissolving the suffering.
  7. You are first to notice both 👏
  8. You must do it because you are a leader.
  9. People are attracted by what they can see thats why influencers have money,women around to show what they got and if you listen to me you will get it too.But cars and women are fake and their message is fake.
  10. That's good next level is already have mindset figured out and then acting without a thought.Because when you brush your teeth you dont need to think and you are not suffering while doing it right?
  11. If one is emotional being then no matter what mindset you hold it will override it,then its all about doing the thing it holds you back by ignoring the mind/emotions and just doing the action without the thought.Then one doesnt operate on concious and subcioncious, but by the intent without the thought.If one operates like that then what comes out of you is your new you vs your old you.
  12. Meaning you were used for attention,because you are thinking talking means something its the actions.Lead her to not waste time. You dont listen dont learn wasting time.
  13. You want girlfriend and people more than yourself so even if you win you lost.
  14. Why does subscriber count matter?
  15. Tell them what you wrote here,that you are seeing other women and that she wont be the only one.But you wont because you cant sacrefice women and believe you are not of the value to have multiple women ,so you manipulate with relationship potential.Its not that complicated. Its all about being transparently selfish and test if she wants it or not. You already messed up the situation for yourself.
  16. Lets make a tournament and decide on date and time when Leo defeats all the bots...
  17. Mixed signals means not interested, doesnt matter what she says its about does she follows your instructions...
  18. She never wanted you simple as that,your mind keeps feeding you fairy tales of how shes perfect.
  19. Real queastion is why do you care what they want? If you find the answer for that one it will set you free..
  20. Now mainstream surface level black pill makes sense to me...
  21. Moving the goalpost i guess does it apply to those in coma ofcourse not. But even in wheelchair its your choice how you gonna react to it,you are limited but yet can live around it...
  22. Thats different scenario, im talking to an adult right now, so you as an adult should see that its on you for creating everything in your life.Even if you blame yourself you created it and should take note and own your experience.If you are traumatized,mentally ill thats another thing...
  23. 100% accountability for your actions/reactions...
  24. The more developed you are the more you dont need friends and from that place ,more people will care because you are not focused on them, but what moves you need to make to make it happen and not being stuck as a victim of " i need friends to do things for me" but what i have to offer so they can notice you are a quality and not just another leech.Just by you being great with yourself people will start care more(same with women they love but hate you dont need them) and do things for you more easily, its counterintitive .What do you have to offer? If you say money only then thats your problem...
  25. Then you need alot of self development to do. They care in their own way,but it will never be for whats your idea of survival(unless you have influence but you cant have influence needing someone to care about you).Soon as you threaten their survival that care goes out of the window. Soon you realize you only have yourself and start treasuring/worshiping yourself, the sooner your life will start to become great,until then its like being a begger on a street starved for petty approval,likes...