NoSelfSelf

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  1. This proves my point you just mixed 100 things that you read into sentences that make no sense its like im talking to an Ai 😅
  2. @Keryo Koffa No im not look at the dating section 😂
  3. Wtf are you saying?' before the internet you had to be creative to worth something now everyone is worth something by being a fake phony giving you a cheap dopamine hit, because you are too fried to think beyond what you see so it created a generation of depressed weak, fragile kids also physically handicaped because they havent spent enough time outside for mind to grow.This is all new times problems that wasnt before, gay people were before the same amount... Everything is as the sage says 😁
  4. Thats too much to ask for people 😆 one cant transcend the mind if one doesnt become completely centered in itself and think for itself, thats first step because if one doesnt have mind of its own it will still have anxiety,fear when going outside the comfort zone. But then if one dont identifies with the mind i found the society as a whole dissapears, thats the first insight i got from psychadelic experience when starting to detach from the body..then left with mind of its own if one doesnt have it you just become a plant 😆 this topic puzzles me.It has to combine in the end its super complex matter my goal was to stop identifying with the body/mind then being in a position to evolve society but i was as naive as you 😂
  5. Yeah who knows,but what im 100% certen is : if one doesnt have mind of its own it creates all sorts of problems like anxiety,depression,codependancy that could be the reason of rise of it expecially in this generation..
  6. Yeah, when there was no internet as a kid you had to create fun for yourself, so i was doing all kinds of movies with friends,challenges that content creator are making now etc. was super creative overall, now i had to learn to be creative all over again, since is so tempting to look it up online but if one is not thinking for himself hes so behind in many areas of life and growth wont stick.
  7. I meant you are lost on what you need to focus on what you said career,money,looks is a mindset of someone who doesnt know what he is doing that is not what you do for women.
  8. @UpperMaster its more about knowing where you are and work from that point vs you lying to yourself and not knowing where you are, just going in circles.Optimism is another layer to this its trusting the process that it will work out,if you systematicly chip away at it... For example in dating, if you dont know where you are at, what you bring to the situation but optimisticly just trusting ,then you dont know what "weapons" you gonna use, you just throwing shit againts the wall hoping something will stick it could work but im more about self development than resaults coming from optimism... Its combination of trust know how... But Leo example is different you are looking at other persons journey hes on creative path i guess, so you will not know where you are going most of the time...
  9. Never lie to yourself.Always go with understanding of where you are and what you bring to the situation.Then from that point you progress.You lose so much when you dont even know where you are at and what you need for next step ,lying is just keeping you where you are...
  10. https://youtu.be/eu9QqspSlI4?si=T0IxvosGO928jwBR
  11. Without čevapčići i would drown after 20m horrendous advice 😠
  12. Manhood is particular set of skills that are cultivated through pain,falling down,going againts the odds also being completely rooted in onself where one operates singlemindedly for himself. Ironically one that is selfish because one that is selfish has a standard,program,structure where the experience that is given is way above what you are used to.Every experience is given to become the addiction and push the woman above what she is and how she sees herself. She sang it well about what im saying:
  13. Thing that is misunderstood with what am saying is that i put manhood above dating,so its not about keeping a woman and looking what i should be for one ,if manhood is stepped on as a boundary then everything after is a no no.Im not a fuckboy so its always a stage me 1-billion... You can have your type and what attracts you but that is irrelevant because there is always a loophole i wont expose it so you safe 😆...
  14. I thought when you put someone to a dating court and find him guilty for "playing games" one should remember it.Part of the " jokes" i make are connecting the dots from previous convos nevermind keep moving...
  15. You are slow 😄,i was refering to yesterday's drama arc of how i play games and dont know what a "healthy" relationship is.
  16. @Princess Arabia Mirrors dont play games 😏
  17. How i see it im responsible for being misguided ,what it look to me that blaming a leader is precisely why he can misguide me in the first place.
  18. Well its difficult because one doesnt know himself enough to know what to include in its own way for the personalized journey. Its like one doesnt know who he is,so one goes to a group to give him that identity, then if that group is a cult it will program it to be as the leader wants him to be, because one didnt ever take a lead in its mind.
  19. @Nemra it is always a cult for the individual who has so called "cult mentality" no matter how you slice it, since the other person is looking something outside of themselves to tell him how to be,who to worship,how to think or thinking that leader is going to take you to where you need to go.
  20. But the leader educates the followers that its not about the leader, its about them and their individual path,if the leader is not saying that then hes a cult leader.
  21. Exactly,its not a cult but unfortunately people think its best to follow someone else that they look up to, which is dangerous.
  22. Not allowed to openly do this on this forum.
  23. Well you can only see by the level of your perception so if its games you see who am i to stop you.But beware if there are no "games" then you mind aswell say redpill is true and i would call myself a redpill like an idiot 😂 If you see that fine too since you dont see what im saying...