NoSelfSelf

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  1. Being a dick is being concious how crazy it sounds,when you say no when you wanna say no,when you show her the door when she disrespects,when you see that she is playing games you leave her alone,its all about being congruent to yourself ,then she will start to say things like what a dick you are,how selfish you are bla,bla,bla ... Its not about abusing,mistreating or manipulating/harming woman in any way, that's not what being a dick is in this context...
  2. Dude there is so much game is infinite but do what you wanna do..
  3. Not really the case woman who are phisicaly attractive is more prone to lower self esteem because of constantly maintaing it,being looked at etc.
  4. Aloot your rules,codes,principles,standards,your mouthpiece,your structure,your program,your world,switching from your reactive state to be rooted in yourself,different sides of you,your marketing team,your mindsets,your board of directors,your square i mean i can go and on...
  5. Like you said you live your life then when you see a woman you approach. You should be working on so much more, there is so much to you that you dont even know, because nobody showed you and you havent came across authentic game, only how to be somebody else...
  6. No because actually who cares about those things, you caring about that shows you dont have any resaults with women.
  7. Thats like asking how can i lift 500kg and you can lift 30kg
  8. Im being super nice right now, i dont know how you gonna grow if someone doesnt tell you honest truth...
  9. You dont even know what you need to be doing ,so you are like saling in the ocean looking for bits of answers on the forum, it wont work like you think...imagine as yourself like a skyscraper now imagine how many things you need and you talking about carpets while you need strong foundstion to built the skyscraper you are trying to built on mud vs strong concrete...
  10. By becoming a man easy to say hard to do...
  11. You are not missing anything ,you figured out that pick up is a phony activity and that you are ready to learn real game.
  12. Why would you buy something you dont want? There is a big lesson in this you are all over the place. You cant master something if you dont do things step by step, systematically breaking down the thing you are mastering.In this case like many other you dont know yourself, so you take on everything even the things you dont need for time and the place that you need it.
  13. Well i never think from perspective of another guy or a woman, but how it works everyone has their own prefrence until they get with someone who can engage their emotions and things in them, which changes the whole game of how things go,like for example woman will think i love a tall muscular guy ,but then think why this short chubby guy is always on my mind so game shifts.. but its topic for another day...
  14. Yes the way she meets his expectations,reality,qualities plus the uniqueness he is not used to, which will then start to change his reality so he doesnt see her as just another girl... Indeed its a deep topic which is crucial to understand if you not letting it all to fate ,which you never know what it is...
  15. Same people will want her based on her game, where she shows him why she is different from everybody else and how much she meets his standards,its the same but one who has more value wins in simplistic terms..but if she only looks for her needs/standards etc. to be met then that guy can find those everywhere...
  16. I see i think topic starter doesnt have problem with that ,she wants a player but player never let himself catch fully 🤷 thats how i saw it...
  17. Yes, but level of someones game will determine how things will go, based on their understanding of themselves/dating then last women and million other things. Edit:but like you said you will attract initialy by how deep your game is, so its a start but not how it will pan out.
  18. That's only the beggining after what you said has established then game begins :)...
  19. Well usually the ones with game are looking for more than a pretty face, what are the standards a man you want holds? Can you live up to it, that is the real queastion?
  20. You dont need alot of thinking to see you are the same as the thing you hate 🫠