NoSelfSelf

Because you dont love yourself all that black pill pushed you away from yourself.You just love her by capacity you love yourself,there is no need to "fall in love"..

Lack of self belief is what's opening the door of devil part of the mind,to sink you deeper and deeper.

I would end up in asylum if i did this...

I dont do push ups daily, i do strenght training all volume i do is in sport.

Well yeah the way i speak is for a man to understand,ofcourse you dont do it harshly like that,there is a tact in a way you do things ,but essentially if things are broken down its the way i say it, harsh truth without emotions. Well im never attacking the charachter of someone, im talking about the mindset someone present in the thread.What im looking to show is that one can have many options ,many things on the outside.But still have loser mindsets i put mindsets,manhood,self love above all so even if you get things ,where it came from is most important to me. You can have women, but if you need them to feel loved for me thats loser mindset.

If you could explain it in your words now i get lost in therminology...

No matter what you conditioned,there will always be that part of your mind whispering in your ear "you are not good enough" "you cant do this, its too hard" it will never tell you "look how much qualities you have,look what possibilities you can do with it" So there is always a power struggle in your mind who will take the throne. Ofcourse with better conditioning and understanding, it will be easier to take the throne.Taking throne means for example, today you want to do something but your mind/feelings doesnt want to do it ,but you want to do it... that's power struggle. The more power you hold over yourself(there are many missing pieces that i wont write here) the more that voice dont have any say, but the voice you put there("positive one") its amazing that whats going on in the news its whats literraly happening in your "own country/kingdom"in your mind. For mind to keep having throne pushes you to watch red pill content,to despise people,focus on people,no original thought.So it can control and rule you.

Yes you must sacrefice her if shes breaking the integrity of your being(it hurts both sides) doesnt matter if its 2 years or 50 years.You are having made up scenario in your head(its very situation dependant)here this is being dragged with situatinship bs, giving him crumbs thinking thats best for his feelings its not. If you cant sacrefice her, then you gonna be the guy that sleeps on your coach because you love her.

What?

Well no matter how you feel/think you just go do it.That's discipline,there is no technique or thinking about it.Its pure "this sucks" im still going to do it.

This is self hate talking,also putting up is self hate.There is nothing special about a woman its just a woman. It should be im sexy,im fun,im best thing she can lay eyes on.

There is a deeper reason why you want to watch those videos. Its because your mind is the thing that rules you,its the mind at the moment has monopoly of what you should be doing and being.When the mind rules it will want you to watch red pill,want you to consume as many content to make you stuck,so he can rule even more.That's why mind is the devil. It should be contemplated why is mind attracted to the negativity and only few times attracted to the positive.Why mind constantly telling you bad things about you?

Look this thing like this,instead saying to yourself "its hard to let her go" say this " im not settling for crumbs shes giving me i want the whole thing,she is not giving me that so she must go.Im not the begger,im not starved of love i love myself thats enough". It hurts alot because you are losing the thing you love but the object of love should be you.This is kinda self-hate to torture yourself over a woman.

I read between the lines, im not surface level,im looking at things beyond whats being said. I dont need you to explain me things.

Im saying that if women found you sexually attractive in general then this queastion wouldnt matter.If a woman is acting differently then how they normally act and its not your everyday occurence, then its a possibility of them seeing you as a target for something.Im not saying for this situation since i need more information.

You are asking that because you know you are not sexually attracted to women in general,so beware of women who are foward like that, i wouldnt be surprised its agenda driven.

Because you are not focused on yourself.You should be busy making things happen with a woman progressing things further rather than men.Because you are not focused on yourself, you then place women in your mind above yourself, then you are reacting to things you have no control over.From that point you have mindsets that are based on feelings which causes judging yourself based on those feelings.

All im saying dont look to fall in love and dont look for a woman to fall in love with you,other than that its on you to seek what you want to get and state it,but making sure you are of value.I hate when regular guy demands things from women while being nowhere of value.Power shifts when value exchange is higher ,so who gives more value can demand more.

This shows why love is conditional and falling in love is a foolish idea.Falling in love is for women by recieving things.Yeah transactional doesnt mean material,it can be for example spenting time,that's why its called spenting time,giving attention its all a currency.

Realest thread in years.

You are mixing situations topics i like to stay in one lane to finish...

So you can get rid of a woman you fell in love with? If answer is yes then you are 100% right.

I dont know how can you be logical and objective if you fall in love with a woman,if you have that talent go for it.

Im telling you how it is when its stripped away from the fairy tale of love and feelings.Its transactional and if you wish to get things in return be of value,have structure,instructions for your vision.If you want it to be on random by following feelings,love then logic and strategy fails just wait for it to unfold ,without asking queastions why this happened or that since love and feeling are unpredictable.

You must be clear on your expectations of her,dating is a process to see does she fit into your vision. You must plant the seeds to communicate what you like and dont like,how you live and what you want.In a way that is not forcing. You dont force her to give you things,she will give it based on how she sees you and your influences. You give at all times, but if she doesnt follow instructions on your expectations of her, choices she makes on her own, then shes not for you. So she will give based on who you are and some of them just dont give at all so you choose if thats okay. Ofcourse its not you just giving "love" is conditional,unconditional love is for yourself.