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@MM1988 you need to be more specific with example does that happen after first date what did you do on a date (what mistakes that you did)

@MM1988 Not really you think taking action will make her want you thats an llusion love is giving other space to come to you as they pleases ofcourse you lead on a date and everything else thats another thing trap is trying to pursue or taking unnecessary action so she likes you more...

@MM1988 you get the number set a date then after that your pursuit is over then you wait for her to contact you and on a date you wait her sign when its ready to touch

The thing is you only pursue little in the beggining then let her pursue you showing interest directly kills attraction girls are attracted to men hows feeling are unclear...

@bejapuskas i know there are people like that thats what im trying to say you cant do it right now its like you try to compete or be like an olympic athlete but you only started or you workout just 2 3 years

@Shakazulu yes improve but not take it too soon(big jumps) trying to get resaults too quickly will only hurt you

@Shakazulu im not saying its not possible but if you are begginer meditator or even advanced you are way over your head thinking you can meditate for 90 hours prove me wrong tho...

It will take you years of meditation to even meditate for 8 hours in one sitting

Let us know if it stays or the ego will sneak back in

@SageModeAustin i did didnt get much from it

@SageModeAustin you mean the book of five rings?

Virginity thing is so lame construct of the society to boost its ego and shame others...

I love that guy

Poor guy ??

Teach them about openmindendness first!

@RabbitHole Yea i see so many so called selfless people hating on selfishnes not helping anyone and not helping themselves and they usually help from selfish reasons paradoxically

@Ampresus what second queastion i think i answered it all

@Ampresus that was my queastion there are so many alternatives:greek yogurt,peanutbutter on rice cookies,protein shakes,you have leos videos on his vegetable soap,nuts,oat meal etc

I got similar insight where i found that you should focus on yourself be selfish and when you get stronger you use it for impacting others what good is if you cant do something of value and that sometimes means being extremly selfish(creating value),why would someone need your help, its absurd when you dont have something to offer but only threw your own goals you can achieve the impact on others...so in imo you should be selfish for yourself then use it...

So if there is no bread there is no food? You are stuck in stage blue overcome that,when he said alone he meant find alone time to do things it doesnt mean you cut out from people...

@Leo Gura what can make you developed it seems to me now its the quality of your mindsets and how you apply them..?

@Shin So much infinite buety in one post im melting ???

joy of life begins in nonduality your ego is fooling "you"...

There is no you doing anything so tell me if free or no will is real

Is there a way to acess subconcious mind and how do you know if thats your subconcious? I only know of shadow work technique and journaling is that it?