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@Joseph Maynor No its a recognition that you see yourself and recognize that you are that and got hypnotized believing that you are something else by your mind (thats what direct experience is in a nutshell)

@Joseph Maynor No you is a thought...yeah being recognizes itself and see itself

@Joseph Maynor yeah you can stay in no mind or play with constructing its still important cuz it affects your body how will behave and what will do but still you know its doing it by itself...

@Joseph Maynor Yeah thats true mind makes everything meanings, labels realities other people stories birthdays etc. You are living other peoples minds meanings and live in your own mind meaning...there is still mind after you awake but you will see its illusions and you will see that is necessery to construct meanings for some things why not its easier to navigate...

@Joseph Maynor there is no meaning we make meanings like everything else its all made up and it becomes real if we believe in it and jas many others that believe in it...you can just be and create meaning at the same time there is no conflict i can make meaning and find evidence about it make other believes it and it will become true thats why religion works for some for some not

Why cant you see there is no meaning and make a meaning in the same time?

Because of lack of interest in another person do you cant think what to talk about with your best friend? No you are geniuly curious about whats going on in his life ...

@Viking happy off meaning what do you mean?

Everything is meaningless is true but not from perspective of ego mind...ego can make all sorts of meanings but they will never be 100% because its not real its changable you can adjust meanings you can do anything and your mind made another thing that it has to be 100% to make it not concrete because thats what mind does its never 100% anything... one day its like this another its like that...one minute i want this another i dont...

Regarding your title thats not life thats projection of your mind giving meaning to the circumstances...what do you mean let down by every partner?

@Jed Vassallo its on his facebook page im on mobile and dont use it here cuz of memory

@winterknight he addresed it in one of his videos that he didnt harm anybody ever

@Nahm what kind of manipulative and weak way to do it i know its a example but seeing a movie on a first few dates is a bad idea

@peanutspathtotruth great i even got inspired for art... but that would be a distraction for now.. keep us informed..

@Alex14 yeah even better to secure the definite date ask her when shes free then suggest time and place if she is hesitant you say we can do it another time and dont say anything...her reactions will tell you everything

@peanutspathtotruth yeah his way of speaking about mastery is on point no bs just pure this is how it is just do it

@Alex14 no you dont need to warm it up more than you did do you have her number?

@Alex14 Stop being a perfectionist...being perfectionist ruins your life and chances...ask her out and see how it goes have fun with her(number one priority) if the conversation doesnt go well after 2 dates then that girl its not for you cuz mybe thats first girl you liked...

Ask her out

Join volleyball club its perfect age to start(mybe little bit late but perfect) through playing you can interact and have people around you and if you get accepted to the team it will help also because you will belong in a group..this is all great if you love sports

This guy has great insights and is self thaugut artist take a look

Now make a movement to spam his twitter to get him on the podcast

@Godheals i dont understand your problem then

This shows me you are not prepared to be a master in anything master welcomes the failiure and loves to pratice...thats why you wont have lasting girlfriend(you admire) it takes skill and time...money is all about skill mehanics....you are architect of your life architect of your mind so you can create life you want it wont come just like that....if it was easy everybody would do it...

I loved the video,i could see what they are speaking(lots of truths) and its like leo is our yoda ??